I have moved away from her. But I still try or wanting to go see her and she isn't interested in me anymore. I am thinking of moving even further like to another state once I have a job line up (which isn't a problem)---I hope that by moving far away it would help me try to find someone else.
2006-07-30 18:44:54 · 15 answers · asked by THX_4_answering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get under another one
2006-07-30 18:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while moving does help.. the best way to get over someone is to give it time. No matter how far away you are the intial pain will be there.. it is something we have to go through in order to heal. Some say a good way to get over an old love is to get a new one... but that is not always the case because sometimes rebounding can cause other problems.... a classic example is if you get involved with someone you don't really care for but they care for you.. you would now be causing the same type of situation for someone else that you yourself just went through. The best thing to do is focus on other things... work, new hobbies, spend more time with your family and friends, and maybe do something you've always wanted to do... it will take a little while but you will eventually get over her.. Best of wishes.
2006-07-30 18:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to know that when one door closes, another one opens. If she is the one for you then you will get back together one day. But if shes not then you will find the person that is right for you. Give it time. It takes a while and you will always think about her and remember the great times. But this happened for a reason. You learn something from every relationship and next time you won't make the same mistakes you once did.
Hope this helps. Good Luck.
2006-07-30 18:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to move away physically. You need to move away mentally and emotionally. Every time she comes to mind, stop the thought right there and focus on something else. Put your energy, attention, and thoughts into a making a relationship with a friend or relative better or into a hobby or a class. If you find something to occupy your time, your energy, and your mind, eventually your feelings for her will fade away.
2006-07-30 18:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "problem" is in your head, not in your location. we have all been through this. read * the complete idiot's guide to toltec wisdom*. it will explain how the human mind works if left "untreated". if "treated", life can be quite pleasant and drama free. if left dysfunctional--very popular for 99.5% of the human race, you're being shown what the result is. view your current pain as an indicator for seeking out answers on how to avoid the "pain". that book can help. good luck. why do i suggest that one? i've read many on point, and that one is exceptionally clear and no bs.
2006-07-30 18:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance won't really help. It may help a little, but in the end it's all up to u. U have to get ur feelings for her straight. U can't just sit around all the time, waiting for ur feelings for her to go away! Sorry if I didn't really help. Good Luck!! :)
2006-07-30 18:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving isn't the answer. You need to get her out of your head. No matter where you move, if you don't get her out of your head, it will continue to be a problem. Do a search for breakups or divorce recovery.
2006-07-30 18:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to The Beatles' album "Abbey Road".
Then, when you've gotten over said girl, listen to Cream.
2006-07-30 18:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by mrcone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try get a hobby and fill ur mind with online games.
2006-07-30 18:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by AsianLion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with someone and eat some icecream
2006-07-30 18:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋