i have been dating this woman for a few months now and at first sex was great,i mean almost every morning and night,now it seems like she cant even stand me to touch her,and maybe we have sex once a week,even then its like she doesnt want to be there,i have talked with her about it and she states that it is how i make her feel,i try to do everthing she wants me to do and still i get the cold shoulder,now if i break up with her for this reason am i a prick??sorry for this being so long but i need help.
2006-07-30 18:37:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, it sounds like there is a deeper reason for you two breaking up: neither one of you is happy anymore. If she were still happy with you, she would still want to be with you. Likewise, her rejection of you has made you unhappy to the point you are considering ending this relationship. For whatever reason you decide to break up, she'll undoubtedly think of you as a jerk. Still, it really sounds like you'll be doing both her & yourself a favor in the long run by not prolonging a loveless relationship. If you do break up, end all contact, & try to find someone who will tend more to your needs. One of my best friends prolonged a relationship like yours for nearly 3 years before things ended, & now he is with a woman who treats him like gold. He could have been with her months ago, too, had he not stayed with a touch-me-not who didn't love him. Wonder who you're missing out on dating?
2006-07-30 18:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the three biggest reasons for relationships failing are: 1. financial problems 2. sexual problems 3. communication problems. actually communication is the most important. you must be able to talk about everything. if you can't sit down with your partner and have a reasonable discussion and resolve it promptly, you have a long rocky road ahead, of you. if this is what you want, (some like the drama) continue with her and keep asking your questions of others instead of her about ya'lls relationship. otherwise find someone who can give you 1., 2., & 3.
2006-08-01 04:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not doing anything wrong. And thats coming from a girl! If she wants to be like that then thats her problem. I wouldnt blame you for breaking up with her. Oh p.s. it might be her time of the month (pms)
hope ive helped ya!
Jessica
2006-07-30 18:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she is the one with the problem, not you. Move on to someone better.
2006-07-30 18:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has problem, give her chance and try to solve it, if she doesn't respond move to another girl, you deserve better one.
2006-07-30 19:06:58 · answer #5 · answered by anoud s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-07-30 19:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋