where to start....we were dating and he wanted his space,so i gave it to him. the reason we are not dating is because he is in love with his ex. he "wants" her to be out of his mind and life, but he takes her phone calls and talks to her everyday. he won't change his number so she won't know it but he still wants to have a sexual reationship with me. as bad as i want to leave, i find myself at his house having sex. he says he loves me so much. he is very possesive. he never hit me but he has layed his hands on me a few times. i just need to hear it from someone else.
2006-07-30 18:22:15 · 5 answers · asked by me_myself 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl what you doing? ask yourself that out loud.
LEAVE HIM. If you don't see it clearly i would give you the reasons.
One the guy wants his space, that is already a warning sign.
If he is really that into you he would want you around always.
Two, you are not dating. So what the he** are you doing?
Three, he takes calls from his ex. Men he is taking you for granted and again he is not that into you.
Four, It is apparent he want you only as his sex toy because it seems everything ends with sex.
Five, Possessive isn't always love. It is probably infatuation.
Finally and most importantly, He has layed hands on him. That should be the final point. Once a whatever always a whatever including beater. Girl pack your bags leave and never turn back.
Since you need to hear it from someone, I'm telling you.
I hope you make the best choice.
Good luck
2006-07-30 18:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Floating on air. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first if he's that possesive and still talkin to ex...he's doin her!
2nd NO GIRL EVER HAS TO PUT UP WITH ANY IND OF ABUSE. If he has layed his hands on you now...its only going to get worse..get out, no man is worth that much crap. Its better to be alone and a little unhappy than miserable in a relationship
2006-07-31 01:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by Em W. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.......nothing good will ever come your relationship w/him. You know what you need to do, just do it, it's plenty of other guys out there......you're setting yourself up for failure...
2006-07-31 01:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go.no woman deserves to hit. run girl run
2006-07-31 02:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by lovetimepeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone
2006-07-31 01:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋