2006-07-30 18:21:40 · 18 answers · asked by R~TeDDy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time is the best healer, remember this.
The harder u try to forget, the harder u will forget the person, as u always tell yourself must forget, forget, in the end u will remember more..
So just let the time run its course and continue life; There may be more exciting things waiting for u out there! Keep yourself engaged and the time will pass by super fast.
Then one day u will realise that the person has become a part of your deepest memory.
Believe me, u can never erase a memory; the memory will only become fainter and fainter... It's the same thing as now u cannot remember what does your best friend in Primary School looks like already.
2006-07-30 20:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty you never forget them but that "time heals all wounds" saying as corny as it may be is true. It gets easier as the days pass especially if you don't have regular contact with them. So that would be my first suggestion, distance yourself from them as much as possible. I mean both physically and emotionally. DO NOT go do things with them as "friends" this is only a very slow way to torture yourself DO NOT talk to them on the phone, email or text.
Remember this world is a VERY big place and you haven't even scratched the surface of everyone out there you can still have feelings for.
Chin up, that's an order, and hang in there!! The sun will eventually shine again, it has too, can't rain forever.
2006-07-31 01:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by SpecialK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live, as time goes by you forget, the more you live today, the easier it is to forget yesterday and not project tomorrow. I think it's better to remember the good and seek more of the positive I do, than focus on the hurt I have endured.
2006-07-31 01:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was true feelings, u ain't never gonna forget her/him, they'll always be n your heart but u can get over it and move on by telling self it wasn't meant to be and the next one that gets n your veins is gonna be as good as the last ,plus.
2006-07-31 01:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE BEST WAY??? go out with ur friends , focus ur self in other things,like sports or, visit ur relatives.. and have a ridiculous amount of fun..
2006-07-31 01:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by ((((marian)))) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about them. Find some other interest. Happened to me few times. No sence crying over spilled mike, when you can have the whole cow. Pem
2006-07-31 01:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't it just won't happen. You just have to be strong, and give yourself time without that person so the hurt can go away. Ya know if you love some one set them free, if they return then it's meant to be...that type of crap...It does just suck, and ya gotta keep busy.
2006-07-31 01:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by manda17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aawww...its the hardest isnt it?
just divert your mind as much as possible to other things. its going to take a while, may take couple of weeks or months (that's how long it took me..but i sometimes do think about him). but you'll get over him.
Theyy say. "time heals" but i say u have to heal it yourself.
all the best :)
2006-07-31 01:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. Keep it busy. Focus on important things in ur life. Spend time w/friends..........
2006-07-31 01:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by marindoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trash everything you have the reminds you of her.....change your number because you know they have it and may call one day. think about the bad things that happen and what they done to hurt you. when you start to think about them do something else to think of something different
2006-07-31 01:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by me_myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋