I like this guy and he likes me alotttt, i wana show him that im not afraid or ashamed to do what needs to be done, cuz hes just being a gentleman and trying to show me hes not bad guy...........
so what if i made the first move as like a little suprise to him , do u think hed liek it better than him making the first move??
2006-07-30 17:50:39 · 24 answers · asked by kewllikethat@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he would think u are easy.
2006-07-30 17:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Digital d 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
In a poll on AOL once (I think it was AOL, I'm not sure, but that's beside the point and doesn't matter, lol) it said that 95% of guys would rather the girl make the first move. So, I would say, GO FOR IT! Surprise him with a little somethin' somethin', lol.
Good luck! :-D
2006-07-31 00:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we need a little push... I think most guys would like it better than putting themselves through all of the anxiety that goes with making the first move... Who wouldn't? I know I would, but I'm weak so...
2006-07-31 00:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would probably be elated. There is a lot of pressure on the guy to make the first move when he really cares because that is not all he is looking for. It would be a great surprise.
2006-07-31 00:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that sounds great, but you're putting him in quite a situation. Maybe he's not ready to take your relationship to the next level and he's waiting for the right time to tell you "will you marry me?" or something. I recommend a more subtle approach that will get him to tell you what his current goals/aspirations are and where you fit into them.
2006-07-31 00:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tony Walls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-31 00:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!!. For me. I LOVE when the girl makes the first move (Depending on what it was). Guys don't know your personal boundaries, and if they decide to go for it and the girl doesn't like it, then everything could go down hill. Also girls could be in "the mood" one day and not the next. Let him know what you like and how you like it....THAT'S HOT
2006-07-31 00:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by nctarheels1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yup....but once that is done you can't play the shy card.....
then he might wonder how experienced you really are....and as far as being a gentleman ok or he might be scared! or better yet inexperienced....waiting for the freak to come out at night!!
2006-07-31 00:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jdubyathree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it has to depend, it may just be that he's just too upright to make the first move himself. If that's the case, I definetly would, if you feel you're both up to it.
2006-07-31 00:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by El Conejo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can make the first move, but DO NOT ask him out.
2006-07-31 00:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by SQRD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Guys will like it. Go ahead girl!
2006-07-31 00:54:11 · answer #11 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋