I don't believe in 'soul mates'. I believe in love, I've loved and been loved just as much in return, and I'll love again.But just 1 person,who's magically 'perfect'?I don't think so. I think that was just put out to give people an inferiority complex.
2006-07-30 17:48:21
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answered by Anonymous
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True love consist of two people compromising to be able to live happily together. No matter how compatible two people are there will always be days when things just aren't the way you had pictured them. I think all too often people throw away a really great love that they share over a piddly fight that neither of them wanted to have. True love requires true understanding and although it is hard to come by it is essential that you make an effort to do your part in obtaining it.
Whether or not everyone has a soulmate or a soul for that matter is something that can never be proven. Perhaps we all do have a soulmate and they smell funny the first time we meet them or they have a black eye that day... what if we were to pass them up? I believe that if we search and give our entire hearts to the search then we can surely find someone equally willing to create a harmonious life. Anything more would only exist in fairy tales. Best wishes
P.S. After added details... Spiritually I don't believe that you should look for someone simply to share your ideals. A new idea never hurt anyone and unless you feel it would affect your own beliefs then it should only cause your bond to be stronger. Although I am not a particularly religious person I do believe that "The keeper of the stars (God)" placed my husband and I in many situations where we could have met, but it was only at the right time for both of us that we did meet. I know no matter what happens he will always be there for me and I for him... if that's not enough then I don't know what would be.
2006-07-30 17:50:55
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answered by colorist 6
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Yes I do and I'll explain why:
The Greeks have a wonderful myth about humanity that explains soul mates/love at first sight and even homosexuality. The story says that people once had two heads joined at the torso with 4 arms and legs. They shared a heart and a soul. There were some that had a man and woman, but also some with two men or two women. As generations went on people were separated forever searching for the other half of their heart and soul.
I know, it's corny as hell, but I've always thought it was sweet.
2006-07-30 17:52:05
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answered by lilith4507 3
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Of course not. There is no such thing. It is a pop culture phrase tracing back to the late 1960s. It especially applied to people who lived together (not married) as a rationalization that marriage wasn't necessary. Today it has morphed into a catchy way of saying I love you. That is the truth, if you wring out all the dreamy fiction.
As for true love, it is a choice you make to be respectful, nurturing, and caring for a person no matter what comes. It is never just a feeling, because feelings change as the seasons do.
2006-07-30 17:48:59
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answered by Iamstitch2U 6
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Well, there are a few millions more females than males on Earth. It is possible that everyone have a soulmate, but there will be lots of lesbians.
Unless you mean soulmate by spirituality.
2006-07-30 17:47:50
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answered by the enlighten one 2
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Hmmm, let's put it this way, there are no accidents in life, and the person that fills that part of your life will have done it based on your choices before this earth. So, kind of like a soulmate, yes. However, that doesn't mean it looks like you may think it should.
The purpose of life is to learn, and sometimes the pains in our lives teach us when we will not allow joy to teach us. Sometimes that comes into love and relationships in a big way.
The concept of true love is unconditional. Romantic love is wonderful, overwhelming, and powerful. True love sets no conditions and is given and received from the Source of love, our heavenly Home. When we bring this true love into our relationships, they tend to be harmonious, forgiving, tender, and wonderful. They also allow the other person whatever time/space he/she deserves in life.
More wonderful (full of wonder) in my eyes is the spouse who nurses her cancer-patient husband, or who supports his wife through drug rehab. These are the times when conditions cannot exist, else the relationship would disolve.
Also important is the concept of self love. One cannot love another more than oneself. It doesn't work. The well has to be dug deep in order to draw deeply from the cool waters below. If a person has lost track of his/herself, then this unconditional love becomes a neediness and sickness that rots the soul and distracts us from what's beautiful and true.
Remember, love, wisdom, and power are created to be balanced in our lives.
Enjoy
2006-07-30 17:52:33
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answered by Geni100 3
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I believe the potential is there to have several soulmates in your lifetime. With all of the people in this world, there are bound to be more than just one that would be totally compatible with you.
Finding these people is a different story.
I'm not sure what you can really say about true love. It just seems to be something that exists unconditionally.
2006-07-30 17:47:19
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answered by ReneeF 2
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Yes we all have soulmates. In fact I think we have more than one soulmate. Wanna see a good movie? Get "What Dreams May Come" with Robin Williams in it. Nope it's not a comedy. It's a great flick!
2006-07-30 17:47:39
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answered by Claire 3
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True love is when you guys could work out every problem you have no matter how difficult it is. It's about accepting each others flaws and loving them for who they are. It's also about leaving flowers everyday on your girl's car or writing notes/poems to each other. True love is when you can feel/imagine yourself being w/ that someone for the rest of your life no matter what the consequences are.
2006-07-30 18:01:53
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answered by jaredkomahalko 2
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sure, everybody has a soulmate, in simple terms like Adam & Eve, and likely, we do make blunders and marry those that we at the instant are not meant to marry. i in my view have faith that while you at the instant are not happy with somebody and there is not any way of salvaging the marriage, then it quite is clean for time to circulate on. each and every significant other merits genuine happiness. Divorce is on no account stable, yet, greater effective to divorce and function peace then to be together with none. As for God not being happy, remember, He sent His Son Jesus to die for each sin that guy has/had/yet to dedicate.
2016-12-11 03:19:50
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answered by ? 4
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