I mean really they like the guys who are rude mean and treat them bad were as guys like me never have a chance. and 99% of the girls know by outward displays and attitude what they are getting themselves into but they still go for them WHY????
2006-07-30 17:41:36 · 28 answers · asked by paladine1980 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"We accept the love we think we deserve."
Sad, but true. Some girls go out with assholes because they don't think they deserve any better. A lot of it has to do with their opinion of themselves and very little to do with the guy. They might go out with jerks because they secretly hope that there is someone nice underneath. Also, I agree with someone who answered before me and say that a lot of girls mistake jerkiness for confidence.
Don't worry. We grow out of it. I know I've gone out with my last asshole. I deserve better.
2006-07-30 18:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by whitespy333 1 · 12⤊ 4⤋
Girls Assholes
2016-10-06 11:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason girls go for dickheads is because 85% they are popular. Girls have this weird obsession with being popular and judging who is cool and who is not. I consider myself to be nice. I have never had much experience in dating however :/ girls always come to me to tell them about all of there asshole boyfriends and how they will never date someone like that again and they end up doing it over and over again. I guess the best thing to do is to just let it blow over because sooner or later, a beautiful girl is going to love you and your personality and want to be with you. If you ever notice, good guys in life alway end up with the pretty girls, while the jerks and so called "popular" kids now, will end up dating scum trash who have no self-esteem
2014-03-11 14:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
BOTH guys and girls like crappy people.
Guys really lack awareness or something. Guys only notice girls dating jerks. Guys never seem to
notice that plenty of guys date horrible women, too.
Why do girls do it? Immaturity, self-esteem issues, stupidity, there could be a number of reasons.
But the same applies to guys. Guys should stop making this into a female-issue.
It has never been one. It's a people issue.
2015-10-18 05:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by mg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls like to play with fire...
they are just like moths to a flame.
They have this misguided notion that no matter how how bad a guy is, or how many girls he's been with...that somehow they will miraculously save him from himself and then they will be THE ONE AND ONLY.
Of course, it never works out...and then they usually get burned.
Absolutely DO NOT change the way you are, because eventually you will find a girl who is worthy of you, and will appreciate what a great guy you are .
Look at this way, why would you really want to be with one of those other girls anyways, when they don't have enough sense to know a good thing when they see it?
2006-07-30 17:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by DG 5 · 20⤊ 0⤋
young
dumb
and full of....
i am guessing that the girls you are going after a younger, most likely in their teen years. you'll find that those girls are looking for a girl that isn't neccessary an asshole but gives them the chance to explre the 'wild' lifestyle. your in luck tho, most girls will grow out of this phase. if not your hanging out with the wrong type of girls
2006-07-30 17:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Cause most girls are dumb. It's funny and it's true. They like the fact that they'll be resorting to tradition ways, and it gives them a sense that even thought they're effing up their life they're following something of a past time tradition that adults/other elders are trying to grasp.
That or I'm talking ****, and the girls are still idiots.
[Is dating a sweet guy. Those girls can face Natural Selection.]
2006-07-30 17:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by D 3 · 12⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls like the bad boy image. They like the idea of being able to "change" them or make them fall in love with them. I was like that once. I had a boyfriend that always got into trouble and even went to juvi for a while. After that he wasn't so cool anymore. That was back when I idolized rappers and I thought it was "cool" to be bad. But all I ended up with was a feeling of failure because I didn't change him like I wanted to.
2006-07-30 17:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Girls like assholes because they like a challenge. They're attracted to loud, boisterous, obnoxious, rude bastards because they are genetically hardwired to respond to such behavior. It triggers a feeling that the man is confident and capable of providing for the needs of the offspring and defending them against predators. Unfortunately, this is the kind of man who is least fit and most unwilling to support a family, and his ramped up personality is usually just a smokescreen for some serious self- esteem issues. Stay away from this asshole, until his testosterone starts to wane and he stops thinking about himself long enough to think of you first.
I know. I used to be an asshole, too.
2006-07-30 18:29:45 · answer #9 · answered by jesus_chrysler 2 · 19⤊ 1⤋
LOl not all women some people are lucky to find men who treat them well. But for those who do... but its a good question maybe they like to live on the edge and feel like they are in a relationship because its disfunctional. Or perhaps because of things you aren't aware something in their past that makes them more prone to dating men who are worthless.
2006-07-30 17:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Dee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋