2006-07-30 17:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by the dude 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
she also say that they where friends before they dated so they still conversate but i think he still likes her
2006-07-30 17:43:15 · update #1
He is her EX and shouldn't be calling unless they have kids together. You should let her know how you feel.
2006-07-30 17:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by mom of 2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There it is. That's all there is to it. That's how you feel no matter what, you can't controll it! So now she needs to realize and consider that, and make a decision. Obviously, you should come first as her boyfriend and she should have respect enough to honor your feelings and say to her ex; '' Look, we're friends and all but, my man is a little uncomfortable with your calling here, given our history and all..'' BOOM! THERE IT IS! I'm sorry dude, it should be that easy for her. At least for me it would be... and if she wants to fight about it then, it's obvious what's/who's more important to her. And if that's the case then, you have a decision to make. Either, stay with her and accept it ( and don't give her s h i t every time it happens.) or, decide that it's such a big deal and break up with her.
2006-07-31 00:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by echeetah_pyt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to not like your woman to have an on going relationship with her ex. Even if they do have a child together they do not need to have many conversations. Only regarding their child and only when necessary. There are very good ways to provide for you child without in depth relationship.
2006-07-31 00:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand what you are going through, i have been married for 1 1/2 years and since i cought my husband talking to his exes i can't stop being jelous. He did promisse not to talk to them ever again but i just can't seem to get over things you know?
Its is bad for you to be jelous though because you get mad and sad and those feelings can get you sick . Just try to tell your girl how you feel and that you would like it if she didn't talk to them anymore and if she trully loves you then she will stop talking to them because haveing you should mean more to her than keeping them in her life.
2006-07-31 00:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by audri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is her ex he should not be calling! Sounds like she could be playing you, or at very least she loves the attention.
2006-07-31 00:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by chynna30_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, if you tell her to stop, then she might do it even more just because you told her to stop.
Maybe you can start calling up an ex-girlfriend, show your current girl how it feels??
2006-07-31 00:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by nicoleissofun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her ex's should'nt be calling that is wrong and takes a lot of trust and understanding from you. I would tell her it's me or the ex's! thats just not fair to you!
2006-07-31 00:42:51 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't like her ex calling. You want to be with her and it makes you jealous.
If you don't wanna say it to her, say it to the ex.
2006-07-31 00:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well please try to control your jealousy....HOWEVER...
really and truly: WHY is her ex still calling her? Unless they have a child together, that is not cool at all.
2006-07-31 00:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ex still likes her. tell her to get rid of her ex because it bothers you. or ask her how would it feel if you are talking to your ex? she would not be too happ.
2006-07-31 00:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋