im 16 year old guy
i met this girl through one of my good friends bridget, ever since i met her 3 months ago i have crushed on her soooooo hard... I cant get her out of my mind. We share the same hobbies/interests and she is very pretty. I am afraid if I ask her out and she says no then she will be all weird and akward around me and she wouldnt want to hang out with me anymore. I really dont want that to happen but i want to further our friendship into a relationship. I dont know if she likes me like i like her so i dont know how to ask her out. can someone help me out with my problem......
2006-07-30 17:37:09 · 11 answers · asked by Pinky69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out for sure if she likes you or not, have a friend snoop and ask, thats the only way u can be sure...and if she does then go for it! you dont want to spend ur time crushing on her admiring her from afar, another guy could snatch her up in a second...
or you could do things to get her to notice you, make her see that maybe she can see u as being her boyfriend, be honest, MATURE, sweet, gentle..all the things a boyfriend should be..
or win her heart in a romantic way, like buy her a dozen roses or something when u ask her out:)
goood luck!
2006-07-30 17:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Moe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask her out. I've liked too many girls and asked them out only to be rejected because they did not like me back. You should ask your friend bridget if she can find out if the girl you like has feelings for you. If she doesn't then I'm sorry but if she does then go for it. If you ask her now and she says no, your friendship with her will be ruined.
2006-07-31 00:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by bob green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only let things become weird if you let them. Best thing to do is just tell her how you feel. If you wait to long, you might never have a chance. You never know what will happend until you ask. If it doesn't work out for you, just joke around about it. Say something like. "If you ever change your mind, let me know"....Just an idea
2006-07-31 00:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by nctarheels1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, dont put so much pressure on yourself man. Take it easy. Shes not the only girl out there, so dont scare her away by showing her that you think she is. Be yourself, be calm, be relaxed. Then on the side be somewhat uninterested in a playful kind of way.
2006-07-31 00:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Slick Mac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope i can so this is what you should be doing be a nice gentlemen sweet dude and be confident about your self and think about what your going to say to now dont be a macho like pervs and say this fake crap just to impress some girl be your self and try not to be nervous when you talk to her and you would be fine talk to her and go for it Good Luck Frome me Luis
2006-07-31 00:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you just jump in and jam it.
"Can I take you out on a Saturday night?"
It's as simple as that. It's not worth hanging back and being shy about. You'll be fine, dude. Go for it.
Take care!
2006-07-31 00:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way to find out if she feels the same way about you or not is to tell her how you feel about her, so just tell her and then ask her out. Luck
2006-07-31 00:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by mvk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be your self and ask her if she would like to go to a movie,bowling,roller skating. it shouldn't be that hard and if she turns you down you can still be friends and try again at a later time
2006-07-31 00:41:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just casually ask her, dont make it harder than it is, be like hey do u want to see a movie? see where that goes
2006-07-31 00:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by juliagulia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it bro what you got to lose you only live once man take risks good luck
2006-07-31 00:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by brandon8020 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋