I m lovin my GF. Now her parents are refusing and she too leaving me coz of them. I want her love. Wat to do?

Question

I am loving her more than aything else in the world. I have done so many sacrifices for her and even when she left me, i commited suicide. To that extent i m loving her, but her parents are telling me that she should not marry me. She was helpless and she left me now. but i cannot afford to lose her. I am a diabetic and her parents are refuising on that ground. Please help me out in solving my problem

Answer 1

dear,

I think committing suicide won't give you a good solution..... the best thing is you have to talk with her parents and try to plant some confidence and trust in them about yourself & your relationship with their daughter & let them know that you can take care of their daughter & can live with her happily after........

you also ask your girl to talk to her parents and explain to them how much she loves you and how you loves her. may be from there her parents can evaluate both of yours love and affection.

who knows her parents will agree with your relationship........

GOOD LUCK !!!!

Answer 2

Oh mate,
You are going about this all the wrong way.
Attempting suicide is nothing short of emotional blackmail. It is a selfish and senseless action and not something you inflict on the person you profess to love.
If her parents are aware that you have done this then it has probably reinforced their belief in your unsuitablity for their daughter. You do not say whether or not you have spoken to her parents about your relationship, perhaps you should if only to give everyone a chance to explain their views and reasoning. I honestly believe that there are other factors involved here and that the Diabetes is simply a 'cop out'.
You may not like what you hear and you may never win her back...and if this is the case then you must love her enough to let her go, but at least you will know the truth and at least you will have given it your best shot.
Your GF is probably hurting too and the best gift you can give her is for her not to have to worry about you. I don't mean suicide either! I mean move on and make a success of your life so that she will not have to feel so badly about respecting her parents. She will remember you kindly for this.
Who knows - maybe one day in the future...
Good Luck x

Answer 3

Im sorry but how can you expect to pick up things as normal when your state of mind is all over the place. Im sorry but you really need to start loving yourself before you allow yourself to love others. Do you really think things are going to be normal if you do go back out together. They most definately are not. I have been in both shoes. I tried committing suicide many many years when someone tried to split up with me, it took while but I saw the error of my way and realised i just didnt have any self respect and thought nothing of playing with peoples emotions. Karma has a funny way of returning and more recently an ex of mine tried to commit suicide after I ended the relationship. I felt so guilty but then i lost all respect for my ex for putting me through all the hardship because no one is to blame but the person trying to commit suicide. You need serious help and need to move on from the past and develope your relationships. You cannot expect your girlfriend to love you but only to feel sorry for you and thats no basis for a relationship.

I am diabetic also and although her parents should not be using that as an excuse you really havent given them much option. They are looking out for their daughter and what have you done to her but put her on a rollercoaster of emotions. They have the right to do that because she is probably fraught with worry about you and making herself ill.

Please get help and if you need an ear to listen to you or want to contact me you can just click on my avatar.

Answer 4

my dear buddy,
Life doesn't always go on our way...
Seems that in my past I also have ever been in your position..
I did suicide either..
But Do believe me, Time will bring us to the new kind of place and time...
Know something... Imagine that.. It is only the small part of your life.. You still have a long long and long road to be through..
Will you know what might come tomorrow..
Dear... Don't regret to love someone...
Love doesnt always mean that we have to with her/him.. But it is rather you know the best for her and respect her decision...

Remember... time keeps going and believe me... If god willing...
She won't go anywhere and she'll come back in your shoulder...
But if no... be bear... That's life...
they come and go... and so do we...

love,

liz

Answer 5

You committed suicide? Wow, her parents should accept you because you came back to life. And if you came back to life after being dead, shouldn't you be able to overcome diabetes?

Answer 6

Be strong & courages, having the thought of suicide is a threat instead of loving somebody.cure yr illness, build yr career,groom yrself more manly that will help to impress yr future-in-law.

Answer 7

i think you should sit down and have a calm conversation about the situation. maybe you can persuade them that you are the right guy for her. but also did you ask her if they are the only reason that she is leaving you because she might have other things on her mind. talk to her.

Answer 8

please don't put yourself in danger. LOVE is Not just about emotions..use your head and stay focused and courageouse, don't let your emotions clogg it. From the information you wrote...It's obvious that you truly love her....don't worry!
...life goes on and therefore be patient. Don't think of marriage right now, even though it is the next step you are willing to take.

>My best answer is *see a doctor*...and please do.

take care! :)

Answer 9

You committed suicide? So ghosts do exist. Groovy, baby.

Answer 10

not trying to be funny, but you love her more than yourself. Love yourself and then make a way to her heart or another that will except you and all of your flaws!!