i was just on a week long retreat and meet this girl and we messed around all week but at the end she said she was seeing someone and i was like what the ****. but i went on with life and thought i was fine with it but i cant get her out of my mind. she is not the first and i leave town alot and meet girls and im fine with them. im not a player or anything i just lose contact with them but for some reson this girl is different she keeps calling and emailing me she wants me to come she her in her town and meet her friends and boyfriend and im acually considering it whats up with that im really confused as to what i should do about this.
2006-07-30 17:28:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's weird that she wants you to meet her boyfriend. I think it's good that you met her and liked her. It could be a beginning of a nice relationship. She needs to decide if it will be him or you. If she chooses him, don't be upset because she probably knows that a long distance relationship is pretty difficult to maintain. If you want to go visit her, go ahead. But the rule for you is...don't expect much, but be polite anyway. You will be look up to for being polite during this time of turmoil for you and her. Keep your cool, smile and be polite. Good Luck
2006-07-30 17:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well think about it...She was with you on this retreat and you messed around all week then after the fact she tells you she has a boyfreind.....Do you really want to get mixed up with her and her lying...She is a player or a tease whatever and you can do much better than her..Ignore her calls and e-mails....
2006-07-30 17:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that if you did get a relationship with her, she has a poor track record of staying faithful. There’s no guarantee she wouldn’t fool around with some other dude while you’re sitting around thinking how lucky you are to have her.
Also remember that this girl pretty much popped into your life unexpectedly. In time another one will do the same. They always do.
2006-07-30 17:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dave N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into her head. Make her think what your thinking without getting into a fight. Just say little things like. "When you guys break up, I'll be there.." Say something that would question herself just a little bit, because if shes questioning herself then you know she has you on the brain. Walk between them without pushing someone over. If you know what I mean.
2006-07-30 17:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by nctarheels1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to do the elimidate scenario with you and her boyfriend. in the end she'll pick him, dont do it. whatever you do dont go visit her so you can meet her friends and b/f. i would suggest (if you realy cant get over the slut) is take her away for a weekend out of town, find neutral ground
2006-07-30 17:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a player. Don't waste your time on her dude! Forget about her. Find someone else that WANTS to go to you....it's a mutual thing. It takes 2 ya know!
2006-07-30 17:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never meet the boyfriend of a female you like you will be set in for a big surprise
she likes you and you like her its just her bf is in the way
just continue being friends
2006-07-30 17:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you to meet her boyfriend? thats kinda weird. but hey you should go but be careful an ddont get beat up you should bring a friend of yours thats a girl. trust me that would be best
2006-07-30 17:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tessa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't visit her, man. What are you, her pet? She can either be your girl or she can be your friend; she can't be your friend and expect you to act like she's your girlfriend. She's trying to have the best of both worlds.
2006-07-30 17:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget her dont answer or e-mailing and that stuff just leave her alone or tell her that you moved on and dont call me back anymore tell her that she would back off for a long time i think
2006-07-30 17:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋