Im really sad?

Question

I have been talking to this guy for six months, and when we first started talking he told me he wasnt ready for a relationship b/c he had lose ends. But the other girls he was talkin to at first are gone now, and he told me about a month ago that he was ready for a relationship, but that quicly changed. We went through a miscariage together and that brought us closer together. He told me that he loves me with all his heart and that when he commits he wants to fully commit to me, b/c he is afraid of cheating on me. He has been hurt a million times b4 and has so much sexual experinces over me since hes my second and im his 9th. I love him very much, but im scared that im waitin for somethin that wont happen. His past relationships have really torn him down and has given no hope for the future, but he is really gonna miss out on something good if he doesnt give us a try. What should I do?

Answer 1

I thnk you deserve way better than to play these games. Remember he'll be missing out, but you wont be. He sounds like a dog to me sorry

Answer 2

baby girl i feel ya. i was w/my ex 4 over a year and we lived 2gether.we experienced 3 miscarriages and it brought us closer too.he left b/c he wanted 2 be single 2 months ago and im hurt. he says all the same things ur guy does,but its just a lil cover up 2 what they really mean:i want u but others 2. let ur heart guide u and havent moved on yet&i hope he comes back but if what is meant 2 be will be.only time will tell good luck girl

Answer 3

Forget him -- you are his 9th -- he has probably forgotten you.

If he says you are his 9th, that means you are probably his 29th.

Forget this guy -- the very nature of your question says you are looking for something that this guy won't give you -- long term committed relationships take more time than this guy obviously gives.

Forget him and move on.

I've always found that when a guy leaves a girl or vice versa, it seems like the end of the world -- until another one comes along.

Another one will come along for you.

Forget him.

Answer 4

this is really terrible to hear well all you can do is right now wait to the future come i mean there is no hope i mean check wit the docters or get another second opinion and make sure that happen thats terrible to hear am sorry but this is what you should do right now but just beilive in god and pray for a miracle see what happens in a few years or months

Answer 5

When will females learn that casual sex is the males heaven! Only the female pays! Her Costs = birth control, raise the child, alone after he has enjoyed himself, alone (too often with child), disease, social and finical issues, dumped when he wants out without recourse, Hurt feelings

His cost: Free, convenient, all I want sex & Maybe child support, if they catch him! So, who's next?

Answer 6

You're so gullible.........think about it what does a person have to think about before they committ to serious monogamous relationship? They either do or don't anything else is just a bunch of excuses and if you believe them then you are behaving very immature......Either he committs to you or you move stop complicating things......

Answer 7

srry, but yo story is too long. i dont feel like reading. thanx 4 the 2 pts anywayz

cheer up gurl!!

Answer 8

tell him you're different
prove to him you're different
or let him figure out you're different
love is patient
yeah past experiences may stain you but each day is fresh & new & he has to realize that.
don't force yourself on him
let him know you're different

Answer 9

IM SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS, BUT YOU AND THIS YOUNG
MAN HAVE ONLY BEEN TOGETHER 6 MONTHS, SO JUST
TAKE THIS SLOW AND BOTH YOU WILL FIND THAT IF
THIS MEANT TO HAPPEN IT WILL. JUST DONT RUSH
IT. JUST LIKE ANYTHING IT TAKE TIME GROW.

Answer 10

take some time for yourself, stop calling him, no emails no nothing see if he calls you and then address the way that you're feeling it will catch him off guard, then you'll get your answer.