shuld i go for it??
2.will i feel alot of pain
3.will it feel good?
2006-07-30 16:55:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I WOULD SAY DONT DO IT!!! WHEN YOU GIVE A GUY YOUR SEX THEN THEN U GAVE HIM ALL U HAD TO GIVE. IM SURE U LUV HIM BUT DONT DO IT . IM 23 AND HAVE 2 KID 3 AND 7. TAKE MY ADVICE PLZ. ASK ALL WOMEN A QUESTION....I JUST ASKED IT A FEW HRS AGO ON HERE. ASK THENM IF THEY WOULD WAIT IF THEY COULD GO BACK AND CHANGE IT. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-30 17:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by know it all 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend, if you're not in any sort of strong relationship with this person, or any relationship at all, I'd say NO. It will leave you feeling like crap after wards. I'm still a virgin myself and have had plenty of opportunities to have sex, but if you in any way, shape, or form doubt and/or question it, it is not the right time for you. Take your time. Sex isn't everything. You're probably still young. No need to rush such an emotional thing. Because honestly, sex is more than just the physical. It's emotional. Like someone else said on here, he takes part of you with him. You may like him now, but think in the future. If you gave your virginity to him, you will always think of him. He will always be a part of you, whether you wanted it or not. So, to sum this up, no. Don't have sex. Not now.
2006-07-30 17:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by singerofthepiano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready!!!!!! You better wait until you are married. Sex is not a game!! What are you going to do if you get pregnant? Who is going to take care of that baby? They are very expensive to say the least! It only takes one time to get pregnant. There will be no more going out as you won't be able to find a sitter that you can afford. You will have to a milk, clothes, DIAPERS. Are you sure that is what you want to do? Sex should be something that is shared between a married couple, that is one of the ways that they express their love for each other. It is not a game to play.
2006-07-30 17:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a girl then you will feel alot of pain your first time. And if you are under 18 then i would wait some guys are just out there for sex only.
2006-07-30 17:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning whether you should have sex then it probably isn't the right time for you. I'm MOST LIKELY much older than you and believe me girrrrrrl be sure about yourself and the guy you want to make love to. You'll look back when your my age and smile upon your first time "making love." BTW: I believe you should learn to spell before you have sex AND getting "laid" is a horrible first time experience. But if you decide to do it...PLEASE USE PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-30 17:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by amc311 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there will be pain for a short time the after your will be pleasure but every girl is different just make shire you have a towel ready you may bleed. make shire he is wearing a condom you do not wont to come up pregnant after your first time .. and take it slow. don't let him push you remember you can still say no.
Good luck
2006-07-30 17:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity should be one of your best gifts to your husband.
I mean, think about it.
You'll have no one to compare him to when you guys are on
your honeymoon.
And plus, you know that the relationship won't end. (let's hope)
So then you giving your virginity to your husband would not be in vain.
Plus, sex before marraige (fornication) is a sin.
2006-07-31 09:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my moma told me this she said son take time to know the person yur with dont make it a one night thing honey i swear you know that is wrong and u shoulding go for it and the first time hurts
2006-07-30 16:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU NEED TO WAIT, IT SOULD LLIKE YOU NOT
SURE ABOUT THIS, AND THAT MAY BE A SIGN TO NOT DO
SOMETHING THAT YOU MAY REGRET, AND FOR I LIKE
HIM WHERE THE LOVE, SO YOU NEED TO REALLY TAKE
A STEP BACK AND FIND OUT WHAT YOU WANT.BECAUSE
IF YOU HAVE TO ASK SHOULD I. THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD
NOT DO IT.
2006-07-30 17:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you must... make sure you have plenty of foreplay and your really wet.. have him finger you first.. if you like that then have him do oral on you.. if your still in need.. you get on top... that way your in control of how fast he enters you.. if it hurts then you can stop..... take a condom with you..
2006-07-30 17:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋