he goes to my school and we talk alot weve been friends for a while weve dated before and we both liked it but we broke up and i dont know if he'll go out with me this upcoming school year
2006-07-30 16:53:47 · 14 answers · asked by kelsey s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you both liked dating each other, then why did you break up? Sure, there's a chance that he'll go out with you, but not a good one, especially if he's checking out other girls. Why wouldn't you want to do the same? After all, the Chinese definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over, but expecting different results.
2006-07-30 16:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm only one way to find out. I know that's probably what you didn't want to hear but you don't have anything to lose but ask him. But why did you both stop dating in the first place? I guess that is the main question everyone wants to know... and who initiated the break up... it may be worth it just to remain friends since you were able to at least retain that. Sometimes being more than that is not meant to be no matter how much we want more. Many have ruined the best in friendships by exploring that possibility only to find out that they lost a really good friend. I've been blessed once in my life to have gone through something similar and still retain a very good friend in the end. I guess what I'm trying to say is if the reasons were pretty important for the break up in the first place.. that is where you should start. It doesn't hurt to just talk to him about what it was that happend while you were dating. Now if the feeling is mutual and he also wants to resume dating... well then "nothing ventured, nothing gained". Good luck in what ever you decide.
2006-07-30 16:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends the reason why you broke up. If it was because you two couldn't be together at the time because timing wasnt right, than sure. It seems you guys are really good friends so something can bring you guys back together. But if he broke up with you because he only saw you as a friend, or because there wasn't any chemistry then it just isn't there. But give it a shot, try to see what happens. I wish you only but the best..
2006-07-30 16:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going dutch. It's a date, without being a date. If you're friends, then it'll give U a chance to feel him out. Just make sure U ask him how he feels.
2006-07-30 16:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL THNK BACK TOO THE VERY FIRST TIME YOU MET DID YOU HIT IT OFF RIGHT AWY FAST FRIENDS HAVE GOOD TIMES WHEN YOU WERE TOGETHER DID YOU ENJOY EACH OTHERETC,(BESIDES SEX) THATS THE ISSUES HERE WEWRE YOU RIGHT FOR ONE ANOTHER THEN, WIL YOU MAKE IT NOW?/ HAVE THINGS CHANGEDD IS HE OR YOU DATING SOMEBODY ELSE TALKING TOO HIM IN PRIVATE SIT DOWNE WITH THE DUDE CONNECT UP, TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM, WANT HIM ONLY YOU KNOW THE TRUTH ETC!!
2006-07-30 16:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on what was the broke up if it was real bad then there might be a non slightly chace you might if it was a regular procces break up then just get him on a date this year
2006-07-30 16:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can get to the conversation of talking abt ur past relationship..and how it went wrong and such..then I'd say it's okay. but other than that...don't go with him..cuz you might have the same problems
2006-07-30 16:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by iD2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you'll go out again when he wants a deep dark hole to hammer his wood into
2006-07-30 16:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u guys break up in the first place?
2006-07-30 16:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by Brownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never go out with the same guy !!! Remember !!! your female !!!
2006-07-30 16:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by ChiefNickNameadvancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋