2006-07-30 16:45:53 · 51 answers · asked by Joey J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to move on. You probably won't be able to change her mind. Try to find a new girl, one that likes you as much as you like her. And just make sure you live for you and don't try to impress the girl that doesn't like you.
2006-07-30 16:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by summer_ella_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm not you hun I and I'm sure a zillion others have been where you are. Yes,... it absolutely sucks, it is pain that hurts beyond comprehension to most. To be perfectly honest with you I'm still going through the same thing... it has started to hurt less and I've started to move on. Don't let it tear you apart any more. Take steps toward living your life... whether it be going after a higher paying job, finding a new hobbie to persue or getting a new hair cut... find something new everyday to include into your life... you will hurt less someday I promise.. but what's the sense in slowly torturing yourself when it won't change how the other person feels about you. Really think about that. If the end result is always gonna be that they don't want you... this is when you realize WOW... all options leave me right back where I started... and then it becomes easier to move on. Be well.
2006-07-30 16:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We get so involved and almost obsessed with the person our heart goes out to. It feels much like we will never love another ever again. But time moves on and so does our heart, if it's not the right person.
If this girl likes you in any way, then the best thing you can do is start dating other people, when she calls, put her on hold and take other calls. Don't always be available. Appear strong and independent and that your life is changing and that she's not the center anymore (not in a mean way).
This will either get her to think that maybe she doesn't want this strong independent person to give her up as the center of their life, or like the saying goes - force a smile and then you eventually are really, genuinely smiling. Pretend you are strong, independent and somewhat detached, and guess what, eventually, you will be. People always want whats hard to get and won't put up with just anything. So don't be easy. Maybe that's why you like her?
2006-07-30 17:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by giselehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is that I have been in this situation before. It took me a very long time to move on, but eventually I did. There has to be a reason she does not like you. Not to sound cruel ot anything. If it is meant to be it will all work out in the end Try to enjoy life and let he come to you. Just be yourself and let her see just how cool you are and what she is missing out on. If she still does not like you then consider it her loss and move on. You will find the right person for you some day. I myself am still looking. Good luck!
2006-07-30 16:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Narticia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never be able to let go. She might be perfect for you, but you might not be perfect for her. Like many others have said just try to keep busy. I would suggest not being around her as much as possible, but I know that doesn't work, you still think about her, her sayings, the way she smiles, and laughs. You may never find another one like her, but you can't compare apples to oranges. Two people are very different. So to sum it up I guess I'm not telling you to move on because you might not be able to, but keep busy and maybe you will find someone who is as good in a different way that loves you back too.
2006-08-02 20:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by j;kok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on....if you dwell on it, it'll eat you up inside.
First of all, go take a cold shower....watch a little action tv.
Then, find a friend, go for a long hike at night, to clear your mind.
Then, after a week, go look for another girl....might go longer, depending on if it was a crush, or your two were stable.
Rebounding too quickly, will set you up for a painful fall.
Also, don't settle for next to nothing....find one that will make you happy, share interests with, and most of all, give it some time to develop. Nothing spooks a girl faster, than a guy who wants nothing but sex. Good luck.
2006-07-30 16:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by steveraven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, i am in the same boat. It freaking hard to get over it; but think about the other thousands girls waiting in line for you. I am saying this because I am in this same situation and I still think about her all the time. The girl fell in love with has been out with me every weekends; but realistically she was just using me. If she really love me she would reciporcate the same things that I do for her.
SO MOVE ON dude! I know it seems u will never find someone like her.But if u stop focusing on her and focus on yourself and other girls u will forget her sooner and she will eventually notice you....but don't do it just to try to make her notice u DO IT FOR U!
Sorry I think I am preaching to myself....lol....y oh y....
Bro', just move on. I have been trying to move on and i still think of her everyday. But I have learned something here....it's self-control and accepting that and move out. Yea move on dude.
I hope you the best; we're in the same boat.
2006-07-30 16:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by THX_4_answering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easier said then done, and you'll hear it a million and one times, but you have to get over her. Sadly she didn't feel the same way but there's someone out there for you who will. It takes time, and even a lot of pain in order to get there. But we must crawl in order to walk, and just so we must deal with heartbreak in order to appreciate a true fulfilling loving relationship. Im sure she meant a lot to you, but there's no use holding on to something thats not there...
2006-07-30 16:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She 'ain't' for you!
You should be focused on a person that has things in common with you; appreciates you for who you are; understands and has some 'buy-in' with the things you believe in; doesn't want to make all sorts of changes in you; need I go on?
There will be others. Look around.
2006-07-30 16:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter how much you like her but how much she likes you so don't be drooling when ever you see her act normal read about different ways you can attract a girl make her like you before you like her to much.it's like if a really fat and ugly girl liked you would you like her back probably not that's probably how she feels so what you have to do is make her like you some how look up in the web how to attract women or something good luck
2006-07-30 16:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋