After we had an arguement and "semi-break-up" I played a flute outside my girlfriends apartment and her and her girly friends came to the window and laughed at me.
2006-07-30 16:43:20 · 11 answers · asked by SlapADog 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cyrano is your only option.
2006-07-30 17:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by EXPO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it a vicious luagh, or a giggle laugh. The laugh of a woman can never be translated simply because a girl who viciously laughs at you one minute may come up with silly romantic thouhgts about hwo great you are the second minute. Now you have to admit the flute thing was a little stupid, so thats why you should talk to her. Tell her how you feel, and tell her to put everything you fought about aside - it doesn't matter who was right or wrong. A lot of people in long relationships may experince a break up at least once, so don't give up after just one. If this happens a lot then maybe you're not right for eachother. Who knows? Maybe one day 20 years from now you'll be sitting with her in your backyard laughing about how dumb the flute was.
2006-07-30 17:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guitar would have been better. to your question, i don't know. there is not much information about the person and the relationship. just so you know, I play tons of classical instruments...violin, piano, flute, clarinet...list goes on. I am a classical person. However, even I will probably laugh at the flute part. sorry.
2006-07-30 16:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by musi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, if she doesnt get back to you the way you'd like; move to other women. She apparently was waiting for this moment to end the relationship possibly to test you. Hell, I wouldnt put it past me. Not to offend anyone, but I've noticed many women make some silly moves to get responses from men. My suggestion would be to kick back and create a "man space" for you and your buddies to hang out.
2006-07-30 18:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r doing a rite thing by playing the flute.. its romantic..
but i think the song u play.. is out of tune
2006-07-30 16:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by kzzxguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, its ur choice, just remember that there r BILLIONS OF GIRLS in the world and if u lose this one it aint the end of the world...I like to think of it like this: women r like cars, if 1 passes by there is undoubtly gonna be another 1 coming right around the corner and it may be better than the last.
2006-07-30 16:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mehrunes Dagon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a clue buddy.you actually thought that it was romantic to play the flute.you watch to many movies.girls don't find that romantic, they consider it gay.maybe you need to play the skin flute.
2006-07-30 16:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a good sign. I'd say just back off for now. If it's meant to be, it'll happen, but give it some space to breathe.
2006-07-30 16:46:28 · answer #8 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really not something you ever want to do again, or talk about openly on the internet. Trust me, give up and go find someone else.
2006-07-30 16:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give her some time. When she is ready she'll give you a call.
2006-07-30 17:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋