my fiance is the best i have ever had infact he is the best lover i have ever had so what is the problem,or what can the problem be....
2006-07-30 16:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong, sometimes you may just not feel in the mood. That is totally natural.
2006-07-30 16:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, if the sex is good, and he knows what he is doing and where to hit, the problem can be traced to stress- your stress.
It takes a while to relax and enjoy it- you need to be comfortable with him and having sex with him. Once you relax your body and your mind, you can feel free to enjoy how it feels and then you should be able to get off with him.
Try more foreplay, try talking about it with him and maybe he can give you a full-body masage first- that seems to loosen up my fiance. maybe even go as far as bringing toys into the mix...
Whatever you try, give it a chance- go into it with a possitive attitude and don't pressure yourself to get off- wehn the time is right, you will...
Good luck and enjoy!
2006-07-30 23:40:25 · answer #2 · answered by worxsigns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. For women, it is all in the head. They have to turn us on in our minds first. And also, because you're worried about it, you worry about it when you're in bed. Which takes your mind off of your orgasm and makes you stress. You HAVE to relax!! You're fine. Just don't trip on it and it will come more naturally.
2006-07-30 23:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by tammyb752001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes not doing it just right try new things keep it interesting and next time youll get off on the top of the world
2006-07-30 23:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by badnerves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no nothing wrong... stress somtimes has somthing to do with it.. but just ride on him cowboy and rub your clit at the same time.. you will orgasm.. practice masturbating like that it will help... have fun.. and i wish you many wonderful orgasms..
2006-07-30 23:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him explore inside of you with his fingers ... let him know when he finds BOTH "G" spots, upper and lower.
2006-07-30 23:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by brunchbuddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno. Maybe u just are in a stage where it doesn't really matter to u. Or maybe ur vagina isn't as tight anymore.
2006-07-30 23:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋