2006-07-30 16:20:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love a guy that beats you, YOU have more of a problem than he does.
2006-07-30 16:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure u should stay with a guy that beats on u every night and when u try 2 leave him he hits u because u love him. C how silly u sound.
2006-07-30 16:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actaully enjoy being a Punching bag them by all means stay. Cause you can bet he's NEVER gonna change. If he TRULY LOVED you he dam sure wouldn't be beating on you. One of these times you might not get off with a simple beating you might end up DEAD!!!! For Gods sake do yourself a FAVOR and get out NOW. If he threatens you have a court order placed against him Have him arrested whatever it takes Just get away while your still able to.
2006-07-30 16:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No other reason to stay or to argue....leave as soon as possible. Think clearly My Friend.......he using you, manipulating and treated you as an object not a human being. All just for his self satisfaction, that he is superior...
You know what a man like this is useless, usually a coward and tried to covered it up. No future for a relationship like this.
I do believed he is not the only man in the universe for you, leave him...you`ll healed soon and find the right one who really care, loving you with respect.
2006-07-30 16:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break it off with him FAST. No girl should be in a relationship with a guy that beats her. You might think that you love him, but there are plenty of fish in the sea and you deserve a guy that treats you right. If ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY call the police to report abuse/assault or even get a restraining order.
2006-07-30 16:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you are pretty young and this is probably the first person you've had feelings about. GET OUT! This guy definitely has problems. Abuse is a bad thing. If he accidently hit you too hard and killed you no one would know that he was abusive. Get out and call the police and file a report. If you stay and it happens over and over it is telling him it is ok. It's not ok!
GET OUT!
2006-07-30 16:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by chrissm2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not care what no one says! Love does not hurt! Its okay for you to love him because God say love everybody but you need to get away quick! Its somebody else in this world that will love you and never put there hands on you. And the reason they will never out there hands on you because if a man loves you he will never want to see you hurt especially by him. You need to get the police involved and surround yourself wth others that love you because its going to take a lot of people to support you to walk away! So I am your first SUPPORTER you are so much better than that!
2006-07-30 16:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by smiles18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coolmonkey Please leave this fella.He is no good because any guy who hits on you doensn't truly love you,nor respects you.Sorry to sound harsh but it's reality.Please don't be naieve(sp?).Get help and if he continues to touch you in a disorderly conduct you need to report him to the police!When or if you leave give yourself time to heal emotionally.Get your mind clear,and understand that true love awaits you,it's in a matter of time when it'll come.The guy you're with isn't for you.
2006-07-30 16:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should NOT stay with a guy who BEATS on you ever night and when you tryed to leae him he hit you... that is NOT love; that is self loathing. See a counselor and find yourself someone who will care for you and treat you with respect.
2006-07-30 16:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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You need to ask yourself if you love HIM
or do you love a LIE ?
You can be "attracted" to someone which is lust.
To LOVE someone you must be
best-friends ( best-friends don't hurt each other)
have TRUST ( can you trust him to not punch on you, or hurt you in other ways?)
have RESPECT ( uh, I'm pretty freaking sure he has no respect for you, and if you respect an abuser, you're nutz).
and love is about equal CARING and SHARING in and equal and BALANCED way.
Well, Hon, It seems that if you are being abused emotionally or physcially, or both, that you have few to none of the elements of loving each other.
This relationship is TOXIC and deadly.
You need to get a grip and get your self esteme back.
Go to this site, view the abuse wheel,
and get busy changing YOU and your mind set.
http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/3059/wheel.html
At that link you will see the cycle of abuse wheel that describes the classic abuser techniques including:
Using Intimidation- Making her afraid by using looks, actions, gestures. Smashing things. Destroying her property. Abusing pets. Displaying weapons.
Using Emotional Abuse- Putting her down. Making her feel bad about herself. Calling her names. Making her think she is crazy. Playing mind games. Humiliating her. Making her feel guilty.
Using Isolation- Controlling what she does, who she sees and talks to, what she reads, where she goes. Limiting her outside involvement. Using jealousy to justify actions.
There is much more...you need help.
You can go to the local mental health clinic, and they will guide you to a group that can listen, and talk to you, and help you.
It is YOUR responsiblity to be your own best-friend in the big world. It is YOUR responsibility to take good care of your own self.
stw
;p
p.s. You need to watch the Tina Turner movie. She loved IKE just you love your guy. IKE beat the crap out of Tina until she left his a$$.
One of her most famous songs is "What's Love Got To Do With It?"
What is happening to you, has nothing to do with LOVE.
Get over it, and get out.
2006-07-30 17:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋