Should I talk to her about feelings about physical contact?

Question

So recently started seeing this girl the same age as me, 25 and have been really enjoying her company. She has all the traits of a desirable long term relationship. I've been on 4 dates with her so far and they all have gone well. We plan on seeing each other later this week. Last time we went out we ended up at her place and the night ended with an awkard goodbye. Almost as if she was expecting a goodnight kiss. So far there has been minimal physical contact, a hug or two basically. I know that I could get farther with her and I think she would be receptive however I'm really bad at making the first move. All my girlfriends in the past have been agressive and have taken the lead. I don't know if its left up to me it will go anywhere and tension will eventually destroy the relationship. Suggestions?

Answer 1

My WORD yes talk to her!!! Take her hand, hold it and talk. Tell her just what you told us (she knows the history:)).