there is this gurl i like and ive been talking to her on the Cpu and im going to see her at skool and i want to start a conversation without making it all wierd.. so how do i do it.
2006-07-30 16:18:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
compliment her about something she is wear or her hair .. girls love compliments
2006-07-30 16:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by sha_lalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try the following lines for starters:-
1) Hi, I am so and so, nice meeting you in person, want to move somewhere (have a place in mind) for coffee / tea, etc.
2) Some prep work is good, and decide where you want to go after the meeting with her, etc. talk about some othe rmovies that you and her have both watched, etc.
3) can also talk about something that you both have talked online before, and use that to elaborate more on the topic.
Always use open ended statements, questions, so that conversation can be 2 sided, else you would be dead in face when she answers yes and no only.
good luck
2006-07-30 23:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way to strike up a convo, especially with a girl, is by complementing. Be subtle and not too aggressive, nor should you exaggerate. For example, tell her how nice her hair looks, how nicely she's dressed, and from there you can begin talking about clothes (all girls love this topic) and styles you each like. Each topic will strike up some new conversation, and eventually you guys will be frequent conversationists.
2006-07-30 23:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by isismercado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhpas ask a friend or something what her intrests are and strike up on that subject or if you see her reading a book etc comment on it... but only talk about stuff you know about lol or it can get wierd if she starts asking really complex stuff.
You could maybe ask how her day has been or how class has gone?
What i find really works well with my f friends is if you are just natural and be yourself, don't try and fake anything 'cause they can see right through you.
2006-07-31 00:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mortis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...are you like 70? The "howz the weather" thing went out in like 1980 or something. If you've been talking to her online....what's the issue? Just continue whatever the conversation was online. I mean, is she a mass murderer?? Is she Halle Berry? If not, just talk about what you think interests her. Anything to make the girl talk is perfect.
2006-07-30 23:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by kb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply walk up and say Hi my name is ???? You say you've allready been talking to her. When you fianlly meet say something like wow I thought this moment would never happen or something simply to get the convo started. Don't worry so much about it you'll do just fine I'm sure shes nervous as well and after you meet your both gonna wonder why. Best of Luck I hope all works out well 4 U.
2006-07-30 23:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like "Hey chica, nice a$$".
It's a compliment, you know they love those. But it's not too "Metrosexual" or submissive.
After the shock wears off, it's a real conversation opener.
I know your thinking I'm crazy, but I'm not! Really try it! Too few guys do! It has worked for me more times than I can remember!
2006-07-30 23:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by Champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what's up? How was your weekend? What did you do? Hey like the outfit. Nice Hair. How you've been. All starters to a conversation, just pick one, easy as pie.
2006-07-30 23:21:37 · answer #8 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. after all it is the Cpu that gotten you guys together in 1st place.
Remember don't try to pretend someone that you're not, girls are sensitive creatures, they'll know if you do!
remember the song "Complicated" by Avril Lavinge?
You should know what to do.....
2006-07-30 23:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say things like, the weather's just right, the barometer indicates great dating evening... Wanna go with me? Be creative, girls like that.
2006-07-30 23:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU KNOW HER FRIENDS GIRLFRIENDS ETC,?/ AT SCHOL THERE?? DO SOME HOMEWORK, AND ASK HER CLOSET FRIENDS WHAT HER DISLIKES ARE ETC, AND AFTER YOU FIND OUT WHAT THEY ARE GO UP TOO HER AND START USING THE INFORMATION, YOU HAVE WITHOUT, TIPPING HER OFF ETC, AND THEN GO FROM THERE, ASK HER OUT, ETC, BUY HER SOME FLOWERS TEL HER YOU LIKE HER BUT THE BEST WAY TOO SRART A CONVERSATION IS, IS WHAT SHE LIKES DONT LIKE ETC
2006-07-30 23:23:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋