is it unfair when your bf will dont want to go to their house because he said all of his gf that go thier house is thier relationship doesnt work out???what is in your mind if he this???
2006-07-30 16:16:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Might have a mother issue. She might disaprove his relationships, which in turn makes their relationship sour, until he gives up and becomes single again. Don't take it personally, give it time, and eventually you'll meet his folks. Took my gf 3 years before meeting my folks, went rocky with em for the next 4, now she seems to accept her. it's sad that it's this way, but, sometimes things work out in weird ways.
2006-07-30 16:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he has an issue that he dont want affecting yalls relationship...He may be using that as an excuse to cover up the real reason...It may be the place he lives in that he is very uncomfortable for you to see or maybe his home life...He must really love you to keep this away from you..I would sit down with him and really secure his heart at how much you care for him...When you help him get past his insecurities then you will see him opening up more to you and may tell you the real reason on his own...I would give that a try...I pray all goes well for you both..God bless
2006-07-30 23:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a loser and they always know. Sounds like he had a bad experience and is paranoid. Go out to have pizza with him and your parents instead. There might might be some really deep issues with him that he needs to see a therapist or a Federal Officer. Maybe he's a criminal and he's been on Americas Most Wanted?
2006-07-30 23:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is concerned about people going in his house. Maybe he is ashamed of what you would see or how his parents act.
I would not worry about going to his house until you have a long-term relationship. There are lots of other places to go, including your own home.
2006-07-30 23:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is more serious with you and he is being superstitious bout your relationship. Try to see the positive points on his perspective. It might sound funny if you just really want to be in their place maybe to meet the parents but try to give him some time. If things are meant to happen, he will be the one to bring you there.
2006-07-30 23:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by leelee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW LONG HAS HE BEEN YOUR BF? IF YOU CAN'T GO TO HIS HOUSE, THEN MAYBE YOU NEED A NEW BF, WHOM YOU CAN VISIT HIS HOUSE. MAYBE ALL OF THE OTHER GFS WERE ONE--NIGHT STANDS, THAT'S PROBABLY WHY IT DOESN'T WORK OUT, OK.
2006-07-30 23:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're missing words here. but I get the gist.
well, obviously he does not want to get too involved, he has gives bad impressions to families of people he has dated and he might just want to get in your pants.
2006-07-30 23:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either ashamed of you or his home or his family. Give it time and try to get him to tell you which it is.
2006-07-30 23:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfair ofcourse! he has something to hide! get rid of him and try me instead.
2006-07-30 23:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel Ira L. Cuevas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm maybe he doesn't want those thing to repeat themselves again just give him some time
2006-07-30 23:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by aznflippgurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋