I must admit I really liked my ex-boyfriend. He even took my virginity .We had been going out for about 8 months, but lately he had started trippin so I decided to cut him loose. Well what really mad me mad was when we planned to hang out last week on Tuesday and he never called me on that day , so I called him later on that afternoon and his phone ringed twice then it went to his voicemail so i know he had to reject my phonecall. Its been about a week and I still havent heard from him. He always claims he's going to come see me and never shows up or calls. Well I recently might this new boy. He's so finnneee!!! He's also very cool , and he has his head on his shoulders..but it seems like my mind is always on my ex-boyfriend...? How can i get over my ex!!!
2006-07-30 16:13:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Welcome to the real world!
2006-07-30 16:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by tkltafoya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You sound like a pathetic little high school girl. And in the real world an 8 month relationship isn't anything. Also you may want to pick the right category for your question because as far as I can see it has nothing to do with pregnancy or parenting.
2006-07-30 23:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tia V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm slightly confused. Did you dump him or are you still together? If you dumped him...move on and who cares if he calls you. If you're looking at other guys then you're already on the right track to getting over your ex. Your "first love" will be very difficult to get over. But dont use it as as excuse to not move on. Also, if you did dump him, stand your ground. Don't let him crawl his way back into your life. I'm sure you dumped him for a good reason. Good luck!
2006-07-30 23:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you will probably never get over him totally. He is the first guy you slept with. One way to keep him out of your mind is to keep busy doing other stuff. Fun stuff, watch movies, rollerblade, go swimming,etc. Another way is to think about it logically. If he spent alot of time with you before and not so much now then you know what he was after all along. Call him a pig, move on and have fun. Your going to see him out sometime and the biggest blow to his ego you can give him is to see you with a better guy.
2006-07-30 23:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by JOE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, we've all been there. The only thing that helps is time. It took me over a year to get over an ex. I know it hurts, but believe me, it will all be better in time.
2006-07-31 21:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your ex dosint call or come cuz he is still getting over what happened and to get your mind if of him try riding on a roller coaster or something that it's impossible to think about anything else but what your doing. getting over relationships are hard, and i hope that everything gets better. good luck :]
2006-07-30 23:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by brooke h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself
you are on a roll
do not get caught up
Because men are not a box of Wheat Thins
or Lays Potato Chips
2006-07-30 23:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Queen A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, this has nothing to do with the category. Secondly, how old are you? And he was your first love..it took me years to completely get over my first love. The best way to start getting over him is to go out and have fun.
2006-07-30 23:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by optimistic_dr3am3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will im a male ive had some of the same problems just with a girl. it will take a long time get over your ex- since he did take your virginity. the girl im with we lost ours together it would take forever for me. but it also matters if you r a person that gets attached easly.
2006-07-30 23:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by bubba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex boyfriend especially the one that took your virginity will always be on your mind till the day you die. its a life commitment, but you need to date other guys and lose all conection with your ex if you wanna forget about him
2006-07-30 23:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take some time but eventually hangin with your new man will override the hurt and feeling for your ex and sooner or later it will fade away. nothing but time will help. good luck and have fun.. lots of fun to take your mind off things :)
2006-07-30 23:19:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋