Like today, I didn't even get out of bed. I am still in my PJ's.I am SO lost. It was all going so well, I dunno what I did to deserve this? Any advice?
2006-07-30 16:08:31 · 14 answers · asked by sisterof_3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get yo az out the bed! I was like that too! Do not let him take all your energy away! Why are you giving him so much power! Girl I get up clean jump sit outside anything just so i will not think about it! You suppose to love yourself more! If its meant to be it will come back around but do not stop your life for him! Believe me it is not worth it! I rather sit here on yahoo answers than to lay around and be sad all day! But if you ever want to talk just email me at pocahontas18smiles@yahoo.com! You will be alright!
2006-07-30 16:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by smiles18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This tends to happen a lot after a break up. I'd say call up some friends and get yourself out of the house. If you sit around and do nothing then your mind will harp on what happened and that's not good. Turn your focus elsewhere.
2006-07-30 23:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by thoughtsofastranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make yourself get up and get out do anything try to have fun even if your not looking for anyone to replace the person go out with friends and get out of the house also do your hair and put on some makeup because you deserve to feel good about yourself I know I just went through it and you will have good days and bad days just take one day at a time.
2006-07-30 23:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry . you will have many heartbreaks before you finally find the right man for you .treat this and any other breakups as experiences in life . you don't say how old you are .but if you are under18 i'd be having fun and not trying to settle on one particular boy .if you are over 18 you're an adult and can go looking for mr right in all the right places
2006-07-30 23:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection is always painful.
Make sure there's PLENTY of time between now and the next one. If you were dumped, take plenty of time to figure out what went wrong, where you screwed up, and working on changing that behavior.
2006-07-30 23:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by Av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give yourself some time before you get back in the habit of things. you need to cry if you want, and indulge yourself for a while. after a few days, you will probably still hurt, but it would help to get back on your feet and do some things you normally do. talk to a friend about it if you want.
2006-07-30 23:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by Popsicle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what goes wrong in your life, always find a reason to live, a reason to have fun and a reason to move on because whoever that you are giving up your life for is probably having fun.
2006-07-31 12:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by logo1301 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not gonna help. Go out with freinds...Go to the mall...Breaking up is really hard for the first few days...but the pain will pass..
2006-07-30 23:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...eat some ice-cream..relax..dont worry about it ..cus u KNOW FOR SURE that there is someone else out there! and be happy..always look in the mirror with a smile..and yor WAYYYY BETTER then what u think. hang with some friends ..go to the movies..just RELAX...buh bye and take care! ;-)
2006-07-30 23:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by teeny* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with your girlfriends, go volunteer somewhere. Just get out!!!! Read a book, if you want to stay in bed!!! At least you will learn something!!!
2006-07-31 00:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋