Is it normal to cheat ? Should someone put up with it or put it out ?
2006-07-30 16:07:46 · 22 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not normal, wrong, very wrong. I know this because I did it. I ruined my marriage and a whole lot of lives in the process. It affected my husband of course, my kids, my parents, people that you don't even think about gets hurt when you cheat, just about everyone around you will be affected some how. I will never cheat again, I havelearned my lesson.
2006-07-30 16:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by girlfromflorida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if a person really cares for another then they should not cheat. However it seems that some people have yet to learn that. There are some that are self centered and do cheat on each other. I don't believe that anyone should put up with or find it an acceptable situation
2006-07-30 23:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cheated on my first boyfriend of 2 years when i was 17, and i cheated on my boyfriend now but we were only together for 3 months then. I wouldn't say its normal, but it can be a self confidence problem which i have. you always want more of what you cant have. if someone cheated on you give them one more time and there out
2006-07-30 23:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, def. not normal.
If there is cheating it means something is missing with the relationship and something isnt right.
And once a cheater...always a cheat. Do not put up with it!
2006-07-30 23:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by iWorkonComputers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not normal to cheat. It's dishonest and deceitful and shows a lack of personal integrity.
If you enjoy being treated like that...keep putting up with it, because it isn't going to change. If you don't like it, find the door and don't look back.
2006-07-30 23:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually being sexually active with multiple lovers is normal for all other species on earth except humans. Anyway, cheating is an act of deception and is wrong. Being sexually active with more then one lover depends on your religious beliefs and your commitment to any one person. If your commitment is true, you'll (or he'll) stop the deception and you two can do even the taboo stuff together.
good luck!
2006-07-30 23:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah GB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are in a committed relationship , then of course not but if you're in a young relationship meaning ages 14 to 25 then expect it to happen Boys have sex on the mind and too young to commit to any thing at that age.
2006-07-30 23:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's absolutely NOT normal, especially if you're in a real relationship. Anyone who tells you otherwise needs to seek psychiatric help. No one should put up with it. If they do, they're just stupid!
2006-07-30 23:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal if they are cheating get rid of them they are not worth your time you deserve better and if your the one cheating you deserve to be dumped no-one deserves to be cheated on everyone is worth a honest relationship and cheating is not honest or faithful.
2006-07-30 23:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by i love my dog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not normal to cheat.
To me, no. should not put up with it.
to others, yes, everyone deserves a second chance, especially when they have families, kids, etc etc. However, you have to ask yourself ultimately if you can stand being with someone who has cheated you.
2006-07-30 23:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by choy_daniel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋