he just cant stay home
2006-07-30 15:40:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Unfortunately, most men will cheat if given the opportunity.
2006-07-30 15:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
You know, once I was flipping through the channels, and I landed on some type of self-help show and the topic was cheating spouses. I thought that the Dr. that was on made a very interesting statement. He said that in many studies it has been proven that any human being will feel tendencies to cheat on a spouse if a specific and particular situation presents itself. It may be as far-fetched as "I would cheat on you if Julia Roberts asked me to have sex with her" or it may be as common as "I would feel a desire to cheat on you if I ran into my ex-girlfriend and she seemed interested in me." He, the Dr., went on to explain how it is human nature and that the best way to prevent a spouse, or yourself from cheating is to sit down and have a serious discussion about what that certain situation would be that would make you think that cheating would be a possibility. Once you have come to a conclusion on that possibilty, you are aware of it, and know that you can not put yourself in that situation, ever, if you really care and love your partner. Just something to think about...I have yet to try it with my fiance. Good luck!
2006-07-30 23:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, love rarely enters into the equation where cheating is concerned. Most people cheat because they feel as if they're missing something at home . . . then they end to go looking elsewhere for whatever it is they feel they're missing in the first place.
Good luck!
2006-07-30 22:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy truely loves you, he would not dare think of cheating, at least in my opinion (and i am a guy.) It sounds like he is not ready to be in a relationship. Some guys do not want/like to settle down. Never forget the saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater."
2006-07-30 22:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by frugaldude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really cheating or just hangs out with his friends? Some guys are like that. Dont be too paranoid unless you've heard from friends or seen it with your two own eyes. If he loves you, he wont do anything to hurt you. Talk to him and try to work thingd out.
2006-07-30 22:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say he can't stay home, does he asked you to go out with him or its just for the fellas?
i feel if he truly loved you,he would not cheat
2006-07-30 23:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by cocoadiamonds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband loves he wont cheat on you. If he does wander drop him like a steaming piece of **** he is... don't put up with that bull.
2006-07-30 22:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in love and integrity. If a person have both, will never cheat on you.
2006-07-31 11:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by Alien G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband LOVED you, he would not cheat. And if he does, get a divorce. Don't stand for it.
2006-07-30 22:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by jokerscard692000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved then no he wouldnt but unless u no for sure then give him the benifit of the doubt but if u do know for sure then leave him nobody desirves to be cheated on
2006-07-30 22:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by avenger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋