I'm a Bi Female, how do I tell my friend I'm attracted to her?

Question

I have a sweet friend that I've been cool with for a couple of years. she is a doll. she is gentle and caring and just a loving individual. Thing is, i'm attracted to her, but don't know how to tell her. i sometimes think she's flirtling with me because of the eye contacts we've made and her touching and rubbing my leg or arm when she's talking to me and on the phone is always calling me sweety, honey, etc. I don't know, she may just be a touchy feely type of person...but my intuition makes me think otherwise. She is so much my type and I feel like she is the one to have as a playmate as I've been searching forever for one that fits me. she once told me that she was "strickly"...but yet the body language and touches still occurred. I've even caught her watching me up to my door. We both are single right now and I don't want to wait till it's too late to tell her because she's the type that once she has a man, she's not open-minded to taking any time and intimacy away from him.advice?

none of my other homegirls do this to me. we all are cool more than gentle with each other.

she told me before that although she is strickly she is still openminded and doesn't judge others that do this.

Answer 1

Before telling her you like her find out what she likes -ie guys/girls/both. She might be into you, but she might just be innocently affectionate. I would treat this delicately, you wouldn't want to upset the friendship.

If she doensn't know yet let her know that you are bi. Then ask her if she has thought of it. If she is into you she will make a move. If she backs away or looks uncomfortable you have your answer.

Just be light and fun with the converstation. This might be a girls margratia night - topic of converstation. Good luck.

Answer 2

She does those things because she's your home girl.. You may put a strain on that friendship by trying to make advances towards her that clarify your sexual orientation.

She also could turn down your offer but be understanding enough to remain friends...Either way good luck i guess...

Answer 3

Dont tell her you like her like that. First tell her you are gay (or think you are Bi which honey it is the same thing). See what she says when you tell her. If she wants you then that will give her the clue to try and be with you.

Answer 4

Ask her if she is Bi or Gay. I f she is even Bi a least your in luck. Even if she's Gay thats cool too. If she is neither. Then she can take it wrong. If you like her. Tell her. Get it off your chest.

Answer 5

you might have to just ask key question like " Have you ever like a girl more then a friendship" or "do other girls make you horny if they ware something sexy. just make shire there done in a quite way so she does not question your sexuality . good luck .

Answer 6

DON'T DO IT. LET HER TELL U FIRST IF SHE'S ATTRACTED TO U. I READ IN A BOOK, THIS ONE GIRL WAS IN THE SAME SITUATION. DON'T SET YOURSELF UP FOR A RUINED FRIENDSHIP AND SCREWED UP TIME IN YOUR LIFE.

JUST TRYING TO LOOK OUT 4 U

Answer 7

dont pursue because you risk losing a good friend. If she wants to do it she will know who to ask then you can be right there to get down with her.

Answer 8

Ask if she has fantasies. If so, tell her you do too. Then place both hands around her waist and see what happens.

Answer 9

Ask her if she'd ever consider kissing another girl, if she's interested, she'll know exactly where your heading. If she says, no way! then I'd back off and drop it.

Answer 10

by kissing her when you're both drunk, that way if she freaks out you have an excuse as to why you did it. maybe you can get get some booty dates out of it. good luck and send me all of the details.