Could you stay in a relationship with someone that you really love who comes out after a year and tells you that he is bisexual?
2006-07-30 15:17:43 · 24 answers · asked by yeahitsme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No -
My now deceased husband told me (after we were married) that he had participated in male/male encounters -
I was never able to enjoy sex with him again -
I always wondered after he told me, if he was really 'with' me, or in his fantasy past, with some other guy. . .
This kind of information should be disclosed immediately in a potential relationship - definitely before considering making one permanent thru marriage.
2006-07-30 15:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. If you have been in a releationship that long it shouldn't matter of your partners past, you are with them for the whole reason that you like/love them. Now, as for the fact that they tell you a year into the relationship can mean 2 things: 1. They really really like you and want you to know everything there is to know about them or 2. They may have a sudden interest in someone else and this is a warning sign. Always communicate, it will be the maker or breaker especially about this breaking news.
NOTE: (make sure that you and your partner has an STD/AIDS test to protect each other, if anything may have gone on in the past)
2006-07-30 22:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by BOOBoo4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. I think I would be worried that I can't satisfy him completely. Plus the idea of my man with another guy is a big turn off. I don't think I could handle dealing with a bisexual lover, but I know a lot of girls who could. I think if you have any chance in the relationship you need to ask your girl if she is ok with it. It is the only way you both have a chance together.
The lie would create a major-unhappy rift in the relationship.
2006-07-30 22:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship regardless of the sexual orientation means that there are just the two of you. Being bisexual could very well mean you would desire another partner. The answer is no.
2006-07-30 22:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Because this would mean that I could never totally satisfy him. I would have to share him. And why be in a relationship where you can never completely satsify your partner?
2006-07-30 22:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by giselehere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe.... the questions are this .... WHY did it take a year to reveal this? and simply put, can YOU live with the idea that your man has ben or will be with another man.
2006-07-30 22:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by kitty.hicks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, being that I myself am bisexual...
2006-07-30 22:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i probably couldnt unless i really truly loved him. he should of told you sooner. tell him how you feel hopefully you can forget about it and continue the relationship. good luck!!!!!
2006-07-30 22:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by tiny tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i really loved them i would try and make it work..it wouldn't be easy but relationships aren't always that way
2006-07-30 22:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by yowww kelly clarkson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I could. It seems like there would be a trust issue then.
2006-07-30 22:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋