2006-07-30 15:10:17 · 17 answers · asked by ♥SexylOve16♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My dear, you are what is known as jail bait. That is, if you have sex with your 21-year-old boyfriend, you are risking his being put in jail. If your parents find out and charge him, or if you get caught by any authority, his life could be terribly impacted. So if you are determined to have sex with him, get engaged, and tell your parents what's going on. If he is not interested in getting engaged, then I'm afraid you'd better keep your distance from him. See him only in public places, or when you are with other people.
2006-07-30 15:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that sex isn't necessarily about a time that has been waited. It should be a feeling. Once you know that you're comfortable with it, then you're ready. I was fifteen when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at the time who was fourteen. At that point we had been together on and off for about 6 months. I wouldn't plan anything because that just makes it unromantic, and it won't mean enough. I think that you should really discuss it with your boyfriend. If he isn't willing to discuss the topic, then he isn't the right guy for you. But if he is, then a lot of things will be sorted out and i'm sure you'll both be much happier.
2006-07-30 22:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by ToxicBeautyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hell with it... do it now. Want it to be even more sexy? Make sure your parents catch the two of you. That way at least he will get a good piece before his sorry a$$ gets hauled off to prison. Why not just go ahead and get pregnant too, world is already f*cked up enough might as well bring another child into the world to be cared for by a single mother that is not halfway ready for the job. Enjoy!
2006-07-30 22:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by poor_student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, please wait until you are 18. For your sake as well as his (he could go to jail). If it is meant for you two to be together, your relationship will be ok for 2 years without sex. And If I may, before your married. Just had to throw that in (I am a mother of a 17 year old). Good Luck, and if you can't wait remember protection.
2006-07-30 23:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by prncfnfrvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents know about this guy and haven't already put him in jail for even being around you, shame on them! If sex with this guy is his idea, shame on him!! If sex with a 21 year old is your idea, shame on you!!! Wait until you're of legal age, 18 in most states, and save the sex for your honeymoon.
2006-07-30 22:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably at least until you're 18. Otherwise he might be guilty of statutory rape, and end up listed on the sexual criminal list in your state. Don't laugh, it's happened. And the guy is married to the girl now, too. But he has this record, and this website listing following him around and haunting him. It makes it really tough to get a job, he says.
2006-07-30 22:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, since you obviously don't care about the whole "marriage" and "having a life before you have kids at the age of 19" thing, I would suggest 18, so it isn't illegal.
2006-07-30 22:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by noircorazon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called Jailbait he can get into a lot of trouble. It you really like this guy, wait and if he really cares for u as well as himself he'll wait too. Jails not a pretty place.
2006-07-30 22:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till you are 18. but it also depends on the state that you live in. he is 21 and he is only after one thing. he cant find someone closer to his own age?
2006-07-30 22:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should wait until you are 18 that way you will figure out if he loves u or not because if he does he will definately wait for u. trust me you are worth the wait.
good luck!
2006-07-30 22:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by miss-info 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋