my boyfriend with whom i've been with for almost a year now has been or was contacting another which we've had promblems with throughout the school year...she was nothing but i ***** to me and i was nice because she was his friend and i respected that...she would spread nasty rumors about him and me and our relationship...and when i talked to him about it he took her side of the story and stood up for her...made excuses...i felt reallly jealous and still do...this girl and i have never gotten along because she was always after my guys...except i think this one wants her too...what do i do?...
2006-07-30 15:00:35 · 18 answers · asked by angel_monkey_44004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick her A*ss
2006-07-30 15:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Hea Dude ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that he may want her too being that he is always on her side. in a relationship he should always take your side no matter what!! another thing is that it is hard to be stuck between your friendship and your relationship when you dont want to lose either of them. i also want to say you are a good person for always being respectful to his friend even though she treats you like that. i know that its hard, but she wants you to react to the things she says and the way she treats you. you are the better person here def!! if you get the hint that he wants her too- ask him. point blank, dont beat around the bush. see how he reacts. dont only look for his answer look for everything else too, like where his eyes go. if he doesnt look you right in the eye he may not be being truthful with you. if he is squeemish and nervous looking thats a sign of the same thing. seriously if you really think that he is into her get out and get with someone else. you really dont need that kind of thought lingering in your head all the time plus you dont need to live with all the crap the friend puts you through. either way i wish you much luck!!
2006-07-30 22:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like shes a bike everybody wants to ride and you can be the better person and let the guy go or you could be the better ***** and spread a rumor bout her (nobody wants to catch anything these days..wink wink).
Sometimes you have to just accept things for what they are and be secure with yourself...looks can only go so far.
2006-07-30 22:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off...You can do bad by yourself & don't need her badmouthing you along the way.
He isn't worth the time anyway if he didn't defend you or take time out to question her comments. Girls like that are vicious & it's only gonna get worse. If you try to fight her or have it out w/ her he sounds like he'll turn on you anyways & probably dump you so do youself a favor & drop him like it hot!
Best wishes to you and a much happier future with someone more respectful.
2006-07-30 22:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your worst revenge on her:
Let her have your man.
He seems so eager to take her side, after all.
Seriously? I've had a man like that. He broke up with me a year later, and married the other woman.
Kiss his a$$ goodbye, and send him off to be with her.
2006-07-30 22:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay i thought i could help... i have never been through this kind of thing befor but my Best friend has... SHe sat him down and said hears what's going to happen .. me or her ... I know you like her and too but i am not up for that kind of stuff... I want your anwer... If you pick her it's over if you pick m i want you to get her to lay off and i want you to sit down and talk to her about it with me.... got it... and they got it striaght ... thye ended up enimies but she got to keep her boyfrind! i was happy for her .. you shoud take my advic and talk to him... if you have to sit down with BOTH of them and try to get it worked out....
If it doesn't work out with you and him.. You don't need a man you deserve better ... look in you year book or something i know i think more than one guy is cute and even nice , funny , smart... hope it work's out for the best. Good Luck!~!~!~!~!~!~!~!
let me know how it goes ... my e-mail is mstamm2006
2006-07-30 22:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back' Let him go. If he makes excuses or takes her side over you then he doesn't think as much of you as you think he does. If he thought as much of you as you think he would put her in her place in a heart beat and and stand with you.
2006-07-30 22:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He is not worth your dignity. If he takes the side of this girl, he obviously doesn't care about you or the relationship.
Send him packing
2006-07-30 22:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore HIM. If he really wants you, he won't be able to stand loosing your attnetion. Otherwise forget him, he's not worth it. I know one year is an investment, but if he's no good or not worth the trouble and you wait... that's more time wasted.
2006-07-30 22:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by emerwiseheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way nicer than I would be. If your boyfriend wants her, let him go. You don't need to play second to anyone. Be with someone who wants to be with you or you're wasting your time.
2006-07-30 22:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend was a decent guy, he would not put you in the middle of this. Dump this disloyal loser.
2006-07-30 22:05:47 · answer #11 · answered by sahel578 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋