2006-07-30 14:55:58 · 59 answers · asked by PHIG 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you are not a loser by any means. However, others are correct; she will begin to take advantage of you, and you will find yourself constantly miserable while trying to make her the happiest person in the world. Do you know what her last priority will be? YOU. By being this way, she will always just assume that you will be there tomorrow, and she will never try and truly make you happy, only the occasional gesture or kind word. The relationship will not grow, because she does not necessarily want it to grow, and she will eventually get annoyed with/ grow tired of you doing this. I am not saying to change; i am exactly this same way. i am just explaining this type of relationship.
2006-07-30 15:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 8⤊ 4⤋
If she returns the favors she does for you then no you are not. However if she takes and takes ypur not a loser but you are being used. I was in this situation and still am having some problems with it. You need to stand up for yourself and say I won't be involved in a one sided relationship where i do all the work. Relationships need to be mutual and if she does not do anything for you when you do for her then find someone new.
2006-07-30 15:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by diamondspydor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it may speak of your insecurities. Never put anyone on a pedestal. You are only creating a monster. Compromise is the essence of a good relationship. To spoil someone like that is to have a one way relationship. It would be better to be single. To work so hard for all of your partners wants, and not have any reciprocation, will eventually lead to your resentment of them and disappointment in yourself. Love is a two way street and compromise is THE rule of the road.
2006-07-30 15:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing things she wants you are not a loser.
but it has to be 50/50.
Does she do things you want ?
If not she is a loser and a spoiled brat more than likely
2006-07-30 14:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not a loser your just a kind hearted good man. But don't let it get out of hand. And don't let the woman take advantage of you. I think it's wonderful that a man thinks of his woman like that but it goes both ways she should do the same for you. Otherwise don't be with her. I can I date you! ;) Good luck!
2006-07-30 15:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a loser, just someone who is going to be very hurt in the future. In relatonships there has to be a balance. Doing anything someone wants is not healthy...You will end up being treated like CRA#...Sorry :)
2006-07-30 15:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mercedes_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately
2006-07-30 14:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by cindersphere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not so much a loser as naive. have more self respect and know that she is not the only beautiful female you can get. there are plenty fish in the sea and if this one is too hard to catch and hold on to, throw it back in and fish for another that would not mind you cooking it.
2006-07-30 14:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not so much of a loser ,sort of more like a doormat.be careful with that anything stuff.cause if your that much of a pansy she will want to bring another person into your relationship.and with your luck she will want a real man.
2006-07-30 15:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being unquestioningly passive is just showing that you have no will of your own. being submissive to her ideas could be showing her how much you value her ideas. So, it's up to you - why do you do it? Because you have no better suggestion -- loser. Because she has great ideas which you support? - success!
2006-07-30 14:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by dimbulb52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋