Let's say you got a man that wines and dines you opens the door for you, can cook and clean, take care of the babies, the whole nine, but falls short in bed, would you stand by your man or make like a bad check and bounce? Talk to me.
2006-07-30 14:50:54 · 45 answers · asked by ticoman0719 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you asking? Are you bad in bed?
2006-07-30 14:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, and I'm married, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship. If it is, then the relationship is doomed from the start. All of the things you mentioned are priceless attributes, and should be satisfying. Sex is an important part of a relationship, but with some communication, and some willingness on the man's part, it can be improved. If there's a medical reason for the problem and worse case scenario, can't be fixed, there are other ways of being intimate. Hugging, kissing, and cuddling, not to mention massages, can bring couples close.
2006-07-30 14:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stand by my man and think of his shortcomings in the bed room as the training opportunity it is. Plus if he is doing all of that that also could be a factor in his little performance issue. A good man in the bed next to you every night is worth five freaky motherf*ckers hitting you and several other women, some you may know on the same day.
My opinion: Sex is just an appetizer a partner that adores you and cherishes you that is a main course.
2006-07-30 14:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was already committed with babies I would stick. Divorces or even seperations are harsh on children. It isn't worth it. But if I wasn't married and did not have children with him I would probably leave but I would feel bad about doing it. Sometimes bad sex is really bad communication and embarrassment in discussing what you want. This could be more of a communication problem than a sex one.
2006-07-30 14:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) Stick with him and B) baby there is the kama sutra and other creative sex things to try. So you wouldn't even have to fall short in the bedroom either. Just be open to trying new things, be more relaxed and I'm for damn sure if the right girl that comes along with the mindset, you will feel like a king ya self.
2006-07-30 14:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say I'd like to stay, but it depends on the man. Some have other issues that may drive you so crazy that nothing is worth staying in the relationship. It's the whole package that needs to work and sometimes no matter how hard you try, it just won't work.
2006-07-30 14:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm shallow, but I would have to dump him. I'm too young to deal with a bad sex life for the rest of my life. I'd have to find the one who treats me like a queen in the bed and out of the bed.
2006-07-30 14:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real woman would stick with her man. The two should learn how to create mutual satidfaction in the bedroom. Through that learning the two should grow together more and love eachother that much more. Overcoming is what makes a relationship strong.
2006-07-30 14:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with him as long as you are happy being treated like a queen. As for the bedroom, open communication can help you out. In the end, both of you can be having your needs and wants met.
2006-07-30 15:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I really loved the guy, I wouldn't bounce. If he was that good to me, I would talk to him about the problem. There are other ways to satisifie a woman and if you loved her you would be willing to keep her happy in and out of bed. If not , she will probably cheat on you or leave for someone else. It can be worked out , if two people will work together, but it takes two!
2006-07-30 14:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by 12nanny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. reson being I would tell him what I like and what I don't like and go from there. If he still is bad in bed then there is always toys. good men don't come around everyday
2006-07-30 14:56:21 · answer #11 · answered by lovetimepeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋