Must of the guys doesn't like big girls they like skinny girls. For example: If u are big and out in public must likely a guy would turn the other way. But if a skinny chick comes along and looks like Beyonce or J. LO then u have their full attention.
2006-07-30 14:49:39 · 12 answers · asked by Precious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4% ... 96% like skinny chicks. Sorry, but we're visualy stimulated by a trim legs, a tight a**, a skinny waist and big knockers. Just the way we're wired.
2006-07-30 14:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by heynow 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The exact percentage? Well if men grew up and abandoned their machismo and their need to look good, then it would be 100% but unfortunately some men are unwilling to look beyond mere looks and just go for window dressing. I've found larger women are the ones with a more attractive personality, the ones who DO look like J-lo and beyonce are usually pretty unpleasent, well at least they've been so to ME ;)
Seriously though, be loarge and proud, because the right man who loves you for you WILL come along someday. :)
2006-07-30 22:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by elmo5242 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought the same been conditioned by society to think like that but in actual fact there are a lot of men that prefer bigger girls.
I am a buxom babe and since splitting from my husband after 14 years i have had loads of attention!!
So just get out there and enjoy the attention. If u want proof look at datingbbw.co.uk its a website dedicated to big beautiful women for men that are looking for the perfect woman!!
Good luck and be happy in your skin xx
2006-07-31 03:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Splendid 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men think it's in their programming, but It's just a social construct. Several hundred years ago, well....my history is a bit motheaten as is my geography, but anyway.. ..there have been and still are plenty of places and cultures in which the majority of males in the human population have been predominantly sexually attracted to women who carry far more weight than Beyonce and J Lo, and probably several times the weight of Miss Moss. Haha...sorry. The reason for this is that when and where food is less easy to come by, and the general standard of living in a populace is not high, then women who are fat have high status because their extra adipose tissue represents wealth, and is taken (sometimes wrongly) as a guarantee of proper nourishment (therefore more likely to be able to produce high-quality babies). In our culture, where food is very easy to come by - and especially high-fat, high-carb food of the type which expands bodies rapidly - fat is equated with poor health, poverty, with lack of education, and sometimes (especially in UK and US) with membership of an 'inferior' social class. As a result, a fat woman has become a symbol of the exact opposite good genes - 'bad stock', if you will. I won't...where was I...oh yes, right: The way in which significant quantities of fat are distributed on the 'ideal mate' these days, is on the breasts and buttocks, and that is about it. I am not certain of the reasons behind this, but I am pretty sure that it's to do with sexual signalling (ie making it easier to spot a female, and especially to spot a fertile one)...I am no zoologist, but I'm pretty sure we're in the realms of zoology here. One thing is fairly certain however: men respond pretty well to most females within a broadly normal weight spectrum provided they have a definite waist (signal of health - lots of fat around the waist is a sign of problems with essential internal organs). Um...run out of steam, going to put kettle on....hope this is of some use....
2006-07-30 22:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by dorothy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just think the main turn off is how they dont seem to care about their weight.. i mean some do and its a real hard thing for them and i understand, but in my opinion i dont think all guys are like that. Im not the bigger girl type, but hey theres always someone out there for everyone.
2006-07-31 05:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it depends on your definition.
Most women are overly critical of their size, and men don't usually percieve them to be as big as women think they do.
Personally, I like a woman to have shape - stick thin women are not a turn on. That said, nor a morbidly obese women (i.e. unable to see their toes!)
In other words, if you are a relatively healthy size, don't worry - men will like you. And if they don't, they are shallow tw@ts who are going nowhere in life anyway!
2006-07-30 23:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by John K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Skinny girls turn me right off. I like a bit of meat! Not too much mind...
2006-07-30 21:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mclaren 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you want the attention of a presentable suitable man you need to slim down. If you dont the only type you'll get is someone desperate like me.
Given a choice, I'd like someone aged about 45, 5'8, slim, narrow hips, long legs, good in the sack, non smoker and with at least some money of her own.
It would be best if she was married because then I'd always have a get-out clause
2006-07-30 23:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
skinny for me
2006-08-03 06:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not many.
2006-07-30 21:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋