ok so theres this girl me and my friend like... she asked my friend out and they were together for a bit but then she dumped him... and then she asked me out and i said yes but my friends really really mad and i still want to be friends with him... what should i do
2006-07-30 14:47:22 · 8 answers · asked by n8_ruler_of_the_world 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've apoligized 7times... he h8's me... im not in high school yet
2006-07-30 14:58:25 · update #1
The only way to keep your frienship, is to back away from the girl...Must of us women have a rule...If you choose my friend 1st...You lose. Why be anyones 2nd choice?
2006-07-30 14:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mercedes_82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you tell the girl that you can't continue dating her because of the history she had with your friend. Any girl will understand that. I know for a fact that if I got asked out by my friends ex boyfriend I wouldn't go out with him because friends don't date friends ex's.
but...... if you really like the girl, and you think that the relationship could last for a while, and you are really serious about dating her then I would talk to him, and tell him that you really like this girl, and ask him if it would be all right to continue to see this girl, and if he is a true friend he will deal with it, and realize that you have something good going and that he should put aside his history with her.
2006-07-30 14:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP THAT GIRL!! You don't do that to a friend. This girl is just playing you two, with a girl like this you won't need to worry about having any friends, because she's a total friend repellent. She's not worth it.
2006-07-30 14:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by bratttykat_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, girls come and go, but friends last a long long time. Maybe consider letting some time go by and your friend may find another girl and no longer care if you go out with this one.
2006-07-30 14:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by carol k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes a true friend, he'll understand and respect you. but if shes jumping from friend to friend, no offense, but she might be a whore. that's if shes having sex with everyone of them. and give your friend time ... he'll come around eventually. you hope... good-luck Ames
2006-07-30 14:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how i see it is u need to ask him to talk u and him then u need to tell him did u have feelings for her do u love her and u can tell if he is lying so....... anyz if hes not lying u need to him know tell him look im sry but she DID like u but not no more so u need to stop acting like a GIT and get on with his life their is more fish in the sea.............
2006-07-30 14:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by tonelia b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happens all the time. trust your gut. he'll come around.
2006-07-30 14:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by littleminx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw him. she likes you.
2006-07-30 14:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋