Ever since my ex bf moved out and left for california...I'm lonely. sad. depressed. i feel like a bum. Now, I've felt depressed before after a break up....but not like this. it's been 4 months already. I don't wanna work. And I don't wanna finish up school. I'm lazy. and it's ******* disgusting. Someone tell me what motivates them everyday to get up and go on with life and DO THINGS!
2006-07-30 14:46:58 · 16 answers · asked by xtc_detroit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at the people living in poverty.If you do not get an education or go to work thats where you'll end up.That's a lot worst than being depressed over a lost loved one.poverty causes depression in so many diffrent ways.How am I gonna pay my bills this month?Will I have a roof over my head next month?Those are just 2 of the questions you'll ask yourself everyday living in poverty.Only time will mend a broken heart,but it will mend.Going to work or school will help take your mind off things and also help you.
2006-07-30 15:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Desperado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around you, see those people who work in the sweat shop? Do you want that kind of job? Read the business magasine, how many CEO ladies are running the show? Did you see or know their assets? It is you who make your own destiny in life, not me. Did you ever work in the factory where you get yell at all the time? Did you ever get starve or run out of money cause you have a lousy paying job. Get your but and move, this is your future! You have a career and money, every man will worship you like goddess
2006-07-30 15:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by SNOWMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. Well, I guess I can't blame this all on femininity. First, you need to realize that what you're feeling is a result of feeding on the negative emotions you feel when you think about the past (and in this case, we're talking about that ex of yours...).
You want to know why you can't get on with your life when the simple truth is that you just don't want to. You're stuck in a rut because you WANT to be. Just quit entertaining the thought that you'll never be happy again, and focus on the things that have made you happy, and the depression you're in will go away.
Remember, don't kick yourself when you think about the past. Just stay calm and focus on something you like.
2006-07-30 14:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go on with your life because it's a waste not to. I'm sure your ex is in California enjoying his life. Why give him yours just because he moved away? Take your control back and get back in the game. Do 1 thing at a time and this time next year you won't remember his name.
2006-07-30 14:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Independence!! The fact that i dont have to ask for anything i need is enough motivativation for me to work my *** off! Im in a committed relationship right now but i still want to be independent enough to stand on my own two feet if the need arises. You need to get up girl, this maybe u'r first test in life - take the challenge! There maybe opportunities out there that u'r missing!
2006-07-30 14:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by babybounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really good question!
Here goes it:...
If you don't feel good about yourself, and have personal objectives ,..a purpose,.. then, it seems,.. that no matter what you will continue to remain 'aloof'; drifting , like being in a
"vortex K ring holding pattern"
SNAP out of it, find something that you enjoy doing, write .. to get your feelings out, .. consider everything that you possess to be truly appreciative of. Appreciate what you do have, your qualities and expound on them.
Research something that you are interested in, like astrology,
or art, perhaps revel in you own family history and make a family tree??
Heck, i dunno BUTT DO SOMETHING GIRL!
fIND A REASON WHY.
You, and you alone, are responsible for your own happiness in life.
No-one else can 'make' you happy.
The longer you stay 'stuck' in sadness and gloom the more lack
of motivation you are going to have.
..JUST DO SOMETHING AND snap the heck out of it
~ just do something~ good for yourself !~
2006-07-30 15:07:26 · answer #6 · answered by scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for things positive in your life. It seems like you are just looking at the negaitive dont do that, its so unhealthy. A lot of people dont realize the impact your mind has on your body...So look at it this way>>>thoughts become words and words become actions so think positive and positive will come your way!
2006-07-30 14:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dance by yourself, listen to upbeat music, have your best friend with you, plan things like going to the movies, shopping....your motivation for finishing school is that you will feel free and ready and your parents will be so proud of you....keep you mind busy with positive thinking so the laziness will go away.....
2006-07-30 14:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by JTB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is project between: "to no longer prepare how sturdy you're. (And) in basic terms in love for God himself?" i'm no longer installation my destiny (i'm hoping to be a young ones counsellor in somewhat over a years time) to get into Heaven or to get applause. in part i'm hoping to coach that i became into incredibly actual worth the sacrifice that Jesus made. I additionally desire that i'm appearing out of affection for God. although I nonetheless desire to be as worth as i may be and that i think of that comes from my love for God.
2016-10-08 12:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy good and true friends. set goals and try to explore things so that somehow you ll be busy not thinking all the time your loved one. and one thing i ve done just to overcome such feelings.. i talked to got all the time just to let HIm know that im not feeling weel especially in overcoming such events. friend, get involved in church activities, join singing group or small groups or family. God bless
2006-07-30 15:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by nej24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋