I don't that I can handle him being gone for such a long time. I am going to miss him alot and I don't like that feeling.
2006-07-30 14:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by amber_lauree 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell me to cheat on him or find another guy.
2006-07-30 14:50:14 · update #1
Spend as much time with him as you can right now!!
Like someone said right him everyday.. make it like a journal write down things that you do, people you talked to and how you feel about him.. but mail it every three days that way he has something like an ongoing book!!!
Write him just like you would if he were there with you and when he reads it than maybe somehow it will feel like he is!!
Never end it with good-bye or write you soon leave it open with a simple I Miss You!!
You will get through it and so will he and when he comes home you both will still feel connected!!
Give him a message from me "My thoughts and Prayers or with you, Thank You"
2006-07-30 14:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you dear. My husband is on his 2nd tour there now. By the time he gets home it will be 2 1/2 years there, if he comes home on time, anyway. The best advice is to have him get you in contact with the FRG. They can be a great resource. They can answer all of your questions and keep you updated as much as possible. Do you live close to where he is stationed? There a numerous volunteer opportunities to keep you busy on post. Also alot of the surrounding towns have activities just for the families of the soldiers. Other than that, just the normal stuff, like get a good hobby. This time around, I have been sewing like a mad woman, have completely redecorated our home, all hand made, lol. Its rough, but once you get into the hang of it, you'll be fine.
2006-07-30 21:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your man chose his country over you.
Find another guy.
Just because your boyfriend wants to go off and kill middle eastern people, doesn't mean you should have to sit at home, anticipating his return for several months, your p*ssy quivering for a man's touch. What are you gonna do, just sit at home, lonely as hell, b*tch and moan about how your boyfriend is off in Iraq? Honey, find some new dick, and if you really like your boyfriend go back to him when he comes back.
Maybe he'll join the crowd and rape some innocent Iraqi civilian p*ssy? So if he's cheating, you should too.
2006-07-30 21:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Number 1 advice I can give to any gf/wife of a military member deploying.....DO NOT CHEAT WHILE HE IS GONE! And if you do DO NOT be selfish enough to write him and tell him about it....last thing we need is to have that on our mind when we can't do anything about it but wait half way across the world.
2006-07-30 21:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by fmfcorpsmenrsexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think his body is away but his heart is with you! He will leave this peice with you and him knowing how much you will miss him will be a comfort to him as well. These times will bring the to of you closer in the long run, just be strong for him. ;)
2006-07-30 21:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by JustCurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is still intact even why in Iraq, but the moment he is not replying yourmail take your time and get another guy for yourself
2006-07-30 21:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Paul P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I can tell you that I just went through this.
My husband just returned from a year deployment, we have 2 kids.
It was very hard, but we made it through.
Are you a Christian?
I can tell you, that is what helped me, God.If I didn't have him, I don't know where I would be.
God Bless.
2006-07-30 21:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Misti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should write to him as often as possible through that mail. also you should email him and send pictures so you guys know how eachother is doing. Just trust in his love and then he will come back to you. missing him will make your heart grow fonder for him . good luck
2006-07-30 21:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a life for yourself. I understand that you will miss him, but pray for his safe return, keep in touch, but don't spend your days grieving. I know you will miss him, but now would be a good time to invest in yourself, develop goals, get a makeover, etc.
2006-07-30 21:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be hard. I wanted to join the Marines, just to discipline myself. Yet I wouldn't want to fight some foolish war (in my opinion). I guess you could spend time with your friends, family, his family, and other things to kill lonliness. I wish you my best and I salute your boyfriend for his courage. Good Luck!
2006-07-30 21:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋