2006-07-30 14:13:07 · 34 answers · asked by carla h 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
because the second you hold your baby in your arm the pain doesn't matter anymore and was so worth it and after a month or so you forget what it was even like you just know it hurt.
2006-07-30 14:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if everyone thought that way then there wouldn't be children to adopt because everyone would be looking ot adopt. Yes child birth is painful but its not like as if the pain stays forever, and in the end you have a beautiful baby of your own to love and cherish. Just like when you were learning to ride a bike you fell and got hurt but you got back up and got on the bike again and probably got hurt again but the pain didn't stop you from riding the bike so in turn the pain from childbirth doesn't stop you from doing it again or for the first time. And with epidurals you can have an almost pain free birth still pain but not as bad.
2006-07-31 03:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by chefaid90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Childbirth is very painful,if I try stretching your fingers or try stuffing your mouth with something bigger then your mouth it will hurt.Likewise when your vagina is stretched to make an opening big enough for a baby to come out it is going to hurt and be painful. But after you get married,I mean when you are 24/25 years your body will be in a position to bear a lot as child bearing pain is, bliss, its happiness for you and your husband,Its a great feeling to have your child whom you have carried around for 9 months. In fact for the nine months of pregnancy your body is preparing for a wide opening You are advised various exercise,which facilitate smooth flow of the baby down the vagina into this world.Ask any mother,your mother to if the pain she underwent to give birth to you haunts her till today. She may have forgotten the pain the moment she took you in her arms to breastfeed you.Your cute little face works like a balm,it changes all pain to eternal happiness.
As for the second part of your question is very irrelevant darling,to adopt a child, someone has to give birth to a child.Or you tell me from where else will a child come.
2006-07-30 20:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had 2 children, and they were both born by c-section, so I didn't experience that kind of pain. Mine was in recovering from the delivery. So childbirth isn't necessarily painful for all women, in all cases. But I imagine for the majority of the women whom have had natural childbirth, the pain can be excruciating, but it is short lived. When the woman holds her baby for the first time, and it doesn't matter if she was in pain or not, she forgets everything else in that moment.
2006-07-30 15:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by classyjazzcreations 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From this question, I assume you are young. When I was a teenager the idea of giving birth freaked me out. Now several years and two beautiful children later, the big answer is that it is worth it. (Adoption is also a wonderful option for anyone). The better answer is that it does not need to be painful. Modern medicine can eliminate the pain of delivery, leaving you with only the beautiful experience to connect with.
2006-07-30 14:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Val 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine having this beautiful little baby that looks like you or your husband. A baby that you made. A baby that recognizes your voice right from the beginning and that prefers you over everyone else. You cant really get that with a baby you adopted. There is nothing in the world that makes me happier than seeing my daughter and how much she looks like me and my husband. The pain doesnt matter once you see your baby smile. You can have an epidural or pain medication to make it easier.
2006-07-30 14:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by cynthia_0516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh heavens...childbirth isn't the hard part it's raising the little darlings to grow up and let the world beat the crap out of them. That hurts worse.
2006-07-30 14:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by Lady J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might hurt like crazy, but it is SO WELL WORTH IT! There is nothing greater than carrying a baby in your womb for 9 months, feeling it move around, watching it grow as you have your ultra sounds and then bringing him/her into the world. There is nothing more joyous and miraculous than childbirth
2006-07-30 14:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women like to complain. Complain about the pregnancy, complain about childbirth pain, nights up, kindergarten, all the sports their kids get into, graduation, college, right down the line. This is just one more way to garner attention. They love to use their kids as a way to get attention.
2006-07-30 14:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said it had to hurt ever hear of a epidural. Worked for me. These days there is no reason ever to be in pain. I think it is crazy to go natural your baby comes into the world the same with or with out pain. So why do that to yourself it does not make you a better parent or anything else.
2006-07-30 14:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
child birth didn't hurt me when i had my little girl. having a child and adoption are very different knowing that you carried a little angel in you for nine months is well worth the pain rather than adopting.
2006-07-30 14:20:13 · answer #11 · answered by starlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋