Some things together just don't look right. What do you think?
2006-07-30 13:40:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm dating a man 20 years older than me. I'm 27. We've been dating for 2 years. I just want to be happy. I never expected to date some one so much older. I think people should deal with their own lives. Every body is attracted to their own likings. Do what you want. We are all human. You like what you like. Not like this is something new, all through out history this has taken place. Do what is best for you, life is so short. If we worried about every body's opinion we would never be happy. Good luck.
2006-07-30 13:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's also a huge double standard there. You will frequently see a successful older man with a young woman. But how many times have you seen a successful older woman with a younger man? Or a poverty-stricken older man with a younger woman?
2006-07-30 13:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many points to be consider, first, thecability of an older man to make love to the younger woman, second, others may think that thewoman only loves the money of an older man.
2006-07-30 13:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong, it makes sense. People prefer to see young teen mothers where a punk boy knocked her up and ran away to find a new girl to knock up, that is what looks right to people.
NO ONE wants to see a young woman taken care of by a real man with a JOB, a HOME, MONEY, MATURITY, etc. It's preferable that a girl has to get welfare, food stamps, W.I.C. to feed her child than that she should be married honestly.
It's good that society doesn't have to be inconvenienced by the unsitliness of such a couple. Too bad it's at the expense of these girls.
2006-07-30 13:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not know it was so wrong. Lots of men do it and I feel they may be robbing the cradle. Perhaps they are afraid of growing old and think a trophy wife at their side makes them young and sexy again. I think it is best to marry someone around two years younger or older than yourself. Good luck.
2006-07-30 13:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Canadian lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with an older man marrying a younger woman or vice versa .Age is just a number and state of mind.
As long as both partners agree upon any compromises made.as well as being aware of obstacles..retirement, health concerns and will act responsibly.
2006-07-30 13:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me. If they are both of legal age, and are compatible, fine. The biggest problem I can see is that a person younger than 30 may well have some growing and maturing to do.
This sort of change may make one party realize that the marriage that was perfect before may not be so great now.
2006-07-30 13:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is normal for an older man to marry a younger woman
2006-07-30 13:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, as long as she's 18, although it would be difference if it was a younger guy with an older woman.
2006-07-30 13:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by TonyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. BUT when you are old they will be older. They may be in a wheel chair or worse and you will want to party. Now what you going to do. As a person gets older , the age dif. between you gets futher and futher apart. Are you ready for that.
2006-07-30 13:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by ldp999000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋