2006-07-30 13:05:52 · 34 answers · asked by biggy_mac_41 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have some respect for yourself. Don't let any guy treat you wrong. Leave him and find another guy who will treat you right...
2006-07-30 13:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, apparently you stick with him because you think there is hope for him and that you will be happy when / if he becomes the man you know he can be, right? Yeah, I have been there twice, and here is what will happen: He will continue to treat you badly and one day you are going to wake up so crushed that you begin to see there isn't a good side to him at all. You will beat yourself up mentally for wasting your time and you will mourn over losing someone you thought you loved. You will then move on to your next destructive / dysfunctional relationship because your self esteem is going to take a nose dive. OR he will change. Yes, they do change. But, while he changes, you will become more and more defensive and continue to brace yourself for that old asshole in him to resurface. What love you once had for him changes into something jaded, and you will never get that feeling for him back. In fact, as years progress you will dislike him more and more.
The guy does not see the you who deserves love, respect, and care. He has shown that he is oblivious to your feelings. You have already invested too much of yourself in this relationship and you need to wrench yourself away from this guy now. It is going to hurt you, and he will probably try to come back to you, but you really have to move on and find the true love of your life--the man that treats you well, whether you think you deserve it or not.
2006-07-30 13:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personal opinion: no one deserves to be treated wrong by anyone. The hardest thing to do is to break up with someone that you love. But, if that person is treating you wrong, that means that you are nothing more than a "booty call" for them, and he will treat you wrong in the long term. it is best to get out of this relationship, because it is self destructive. If after one year, he still treats you wrong, that shows that he has no respect for you. This is only the beginning; if you let the relationship progress much further, you will find yourself even more miserable. the best advice that i can give: dump him and dump him fast.
2006-07-30 13:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by pilotmanitalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are being treated wrong, then you probably are. You should breing this up to your partner, and talk to them about it. If it does not do anything, or if it does get, and stay better, then leave them. You deserve to find someone that will treat you like you want to be treated
2006-07-30 13:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by donkey176 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat him nice, talk to him tell him what hes doin wrong and that you dont like it, if after that he still treats you bad;physical or emotional abuse, tell him youll gonna leave him, if he didnt treat you better, he doenst love you enough, get even for all you've suffered, (all is fair in love and war.), and then leave one year of memories can easily be forgotten, feel your self, and when the right one comes along, youll know and that he who treated you bad will regret what he did, if you still love him....you can take him again and risk it or move on without looking back
2006-07-30 13:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your paranthetical question refers to you in actuallity, then my advice is to move on.
There are a very small number of men that prey on women with low self esteem, treating them badly because it makes them feel good about themselves. No matter what you feel now, image being in love with a wonderful man that puts you up on a pedistal and NEVER ever knocks you off of it. Sound great?!
Move on girl, a man that will treat you like a lady is out there!
2006-07-30 13:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treats you wrong, and you have brought this to his attention, and he continues to treat you badly, then he does not love you in return. Its time to move on. You will be better off in the long run.
2006-07-30 13:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by R C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you love him if he treats you wrong? If you feel like there is more valuable things with him than physical attraction then you should stay with him. Have a talk with him and tell him how you feel.
2006-07-30 13:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by RooRoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably think 1 year means a lot but really it doesnt mean a thing. many people break off relationships after several years. so dont feel bad. leave him and find someone to treat you right.
2006-07-30 13:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by keet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he beats your or verbally abuses you GET THE HECK OUT! for your own saftey. There are plenty of men out there that know how to treat a woman with respect.
2006-07-30 13:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by Chris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋