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my boyfriend is in iraq and has been there for 6 months now i have promised him i would not cheat on him.. and i swear to god i haven't. and i love him. but it's hard knowing he could be killed any second. should i brake up with him when he comes home next month. he will only be home for about 2 weeks then he has to go back to iraq for anther 6months. what should i do???

2006-07-30 12:57:49 · 4 answers · asked by i love my son wyatt 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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well you need to take some time and really think about this. Ask yourself questions like " do you really love him?" "is he worth the struggles and pain of a long distance relationship?" Because maybe he could be the one.. then if you break up with him because he is out fighting for our country you might regret it and look Back and wonder "what if you had waited for him." In the end it is your decision but you two really need to talk about it and decide what is best for the two of you. Remember regrets about love are the worst feeling and he won't be in Iraq forever... is another six months apart worth waiting if you are going to spend the rest of your life with him... I hope ever thing work ls out for the best!

2006-07-30 13:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0 1

Dont break up with him when he returns. If you do, when he goes back to Iraq, he wont care if he comes back dead or alive. Because of you, your the reason that he returns. If you are having problems by being lonely and not getting any sexually. Then just satisfy yourself so you wont cheat on him. Then when he does return to the US permanently, you and him will have no problems at all.

2006-07-30 20:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by GOT FAITH? 1 · 0 0

If you love him then stick it out, but if you feel that unsure about this relationship then don't waste your time waiting.
Who knows, maybe you'll break up and date some guys, and find someone whom you are much more into. Then again, maybe when he comes back for good you two can start up again.
I'd say follow your head, if you know this isn't what you want then get out of it.

2006-07-30 20:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0 0

If you love him, then you have to love all things about him, including his job.

If you are not grown up enough to handle his job and the long absences, then end it now so he can move on.

2006-07-30 20:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0 0

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