The reason is because my sister, Mom and brother knows about it. But my Dad and other relatives don't. They said they would not understand, help me in this matter
2006-07-30 12:56:33 · 19 answers · asked by gilrob1959 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you know it will make life harder for you to tell them then its better to keep it to yourself. The ones who do know and are understanding of it are the ones who love you for who you are.
2006-07-30 13:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by R C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need support, understanding and compassion as you learn to live with this diagnosis. If the rest of your family is not likely to provide you that, you need to consider that it may not be in your best interest to tell them. Only you can decide that in the long run. Disclose it to them if you want to tell them. All the best to you.
2006-07-30 13:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should not tell them if you know what their reaction will be.
But can you be sure your mom won't blab it away? I told my mom about my herpes and she blabbed it to my brother.
My mother does not keep secrets. Can your mom? If you are HIV positive then you can be responsible around your family without telling them. You will have to be extra aware of any cuts you may have and keep them covered. If you do this, your father and other relatives won't be in any harm and do not need to know.
2006-07-30 13:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by BONNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by pisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell them so that they can be there for you when you really need them because life may get hard and you may need them so yes i would tell them I really wish you the best and hope if you do tell them they all understand and are all there for you because that's what families are for
2006-07-30 14:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by tater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family needs to know. It will be easier for them to except and deal with in the long run.
2006-07-30 13:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your emotional state with them is a key to wether they should know or not, They should be told in time so they can be careful with cross communication.
2006-07-30 13:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just because they need to know what is going on in your life. but it is all up to you. hope every thing comes out good
2006-07-30 12:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by i love my son wyatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's best to be honest with everyone that you love and to all that love you.
2006-07-30 13:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by free2b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will need their support tell them
2006-07-30 15:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋