2006-07-30 12:47:14 · 23 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
So why are you still hanging with this loser? Nobody can change your situation but you. Get up off your a**, throw his sorry butt to the curb, and don't let him back in the house. Then clean up your act, and find you a real man.
2006-07-30 12:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since u don't want to, or cant control him, he wants to make sure and control u. That wedding ring for u, is just a miniature noose. After marriage, he can control u as his wife. Everything's split in half, and if he doesn't make any money, ur screwed, he'll get half. Then there's kids u might have, what kind of message would u be sending ur kids if u stick w/ their cheating daddy? And of course, u can't just wake up one day and say, ur cheating, so I'm leaving and get a divorce, because he'll be like, u were ok with it when we were dating! So if I were u, I'd get out now, and find someone better.
2006-07-30 20:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if that is what floats your boat, then marry the cheating loser. I think after the first couple of times him cheating on me would have been enough for me to say "HIT THE ROAD JACK" He is not going to change at all and I don't know why you stayed with the cheater as long as you have. He is going to bring something home to you that you are not going to like, if he hasn't already done it. And you know what I'm talking about.
2006-07-30 19:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he does want to marry you. That way when he has a piece of paper, it will harder for you to leave him. He knows that what he has done is wrong and you marrying him does not mean, "oh how much I love you". It means that now you cant leave me if I do all the same things wrong without divorce, money tie ups, possibly kids, etc.
You will be doing yourself an unjustice if you marry this man. He is the one that will be really getting something out of it, and it will be too late to walk away as well as you can now if you don't like the situation.
2006-07-30 19:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You marry him, then you get what you deserve.
You'll be going into a marriage knowing that your husband is going to cheat on you.
If you think that you're not worth any more than that, then marry this guy. But do not come crying in here after you're married and you catch him cheating.
2006-07-30 19:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by beekiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya keep him around after he cheated on you the first time? Looks like hes playing the fool. Wise up girl.. Unless you like being used like that.
2006-07-30 19:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by Makawakawoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheated on you alot of times you shouldnt be with him and dont marry him because once your married he is going to do it again.
2006-07-30 19:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by margera_96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will say this: YOU DONT NEED HIM, HE'S BAD FOR U. MOVE ON. All that bull about wanting to marry u is just an excuse for u to stay with him. and for what jsut so he can keep cheating. DUMP HIM NOW.
2006-07-30 19:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by snugglesbunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can change things is to be with another man. The pattern has already been formed with this one, and he ain't gonna change! If you marry this loser, you will be miserable for the rest of your life. Kick his butt to the curb and find someone worthy of your love.
2006-07-30 19:52:40 · answer #9 · answered by georgiapeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 years is a very long time.You should marry him because you have been with him for a VERY long time even though he cheats.
2006-07-30 19:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋