a lot women I've known seem to expect the male to figure out what the they want when it comes to making love (sex) and that's ok. My thing is why can't she try and help him figure it out along the way. Now me, I'll tell or show you how I want it without question. I want to please and to be pleased. So every little bit counts.
2006-07-30 12:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by rittchie r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think women just don't want to come off as a sex-crazed thing and make the guy think she's all about that. Oh and they probably expect you to know because ur the guy, haha.
2006-07-30 12:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Su 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on this. It is usually difficult for a male to figure out what a girl wants and when they want it. There are suttlties that a girl does give out that a guy has to be looking for, but other than that there realy is no way to know what's going on inside a female's head unless they straight-up tell a guy. I personally preferr a girl to be a bit more open on that topic just cause it's easier on the guy, but then again....its usually worth trying to decode what a female is trying to tell a guy. I also think there's a fine line here that a girl doesnt want to appear like a slut if she just tells a guy what she wants. On the other hand, if a guy thinks he somehow figures things out...it boosts his self esteem...I hope i wasn't too confusing.
2006-07-30 12:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he stationed international? If so that you might ship him a care kit, you already know like his favourite meals that do not parish, like chips, jerky, and different matters. You might additionally comprise handwritten letter telling him how so much you omit and love him. If he's right here then you definitely might cross all out and do a romantic dinner, his favourite meals, then snuggle up at the sofa and watch one among his favourite films, or a brand new one. Also doing whatever he loves to do, say gambling paint ball works additionally. It relatively will depend on the type of man he's. Best of success!
2016-08-28 15:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love (intercourse) is like a guessing game. The man is preoccupied with her perception on how he will perform. The woman on the other hand don't want to give the man the perception that she is unfeminine and unladylike. Best thing is just let it flow naturally. After all, there will be other times and improvements can be made.
2006-07-30 12:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Don S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i dont know either man but half of the time the ones that hold off the longest are the ones the end up doing it the most once you get them to
2006-07-30 12:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by xxmendozaedxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
repressed sexuality & inhibitions.
2006-07-30 12:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋