Ok, theres this girl I know, we are friends, but I like her alot, and she knows this. Shes after this one guy that shes "in love with" and this other guy is also "in love with her." Funny thing is, this has been going on for a while and they wont label each other as a couple "yet." Ok, now when we talk and such, she calls me by these pet names, love, dear, this that and other (you know the drill) tells me she misses me when we dont talk for a day or two, the usual that gives a guy the "clue" that shes interested in you. Now, my question(s) are, does it seem like she really does like me that way, and should I move in on her? I respect that she likes this other guy and Ive been keeping my distance, because I dont want to ruin what friendship we have by pushing my way in and seem like Im trying to split them. Any suggestions?
2006-07-30 12:30:28 · 9 answers · asked by kl0wnie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she wants him but likes you drooling over her.
2006-07-30 12:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's more honest to use just 1 guy at a time. Fooling 2 guys at once gets her more attention and leaves her options open but will ultimately cause resentment for all 3 people.
2006-07-30 19:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by delan369 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds confusing. I'm guessing she dose like you but she isn't ready to choose. She's stringing you along though. Well, you should back off, date other women and see if she starts chasing you. If not, then it probably means she's choosing the other guy.
2006-07-30 19:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the idea that you like her and are willing to hang around and wait until the other guy dumps her, then she'll come runnin'. Don't settle for second best, go find someone else.
2006-07-30 19:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might be keeping you as a "back up plan"
2006-07-30 19:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Inga-dinga-do 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence babe! get up the nerve and ask her she can only say no. plus there are plenty of other women out there
2006-07-30 19:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's playing you both. if your really interested in her, just ask her out. you'll have your answer soon enough.
2006-07-30 19:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just talk to her about it!! Hi um I am new and will you talk to me?
2006-07-30 19:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see what happens
2006-07-30 19:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋