My friend who is 30 years old was a virgin up until last night. He says that he was "up in some na-na" last night for about 20 seconds until performance issues along with unfamiliararity with the pubic region made him unable to go any further. He did not "bust a nut".
Is he still a virgin or is that considered "doing it"???
Please, serious answers only.
2006-07-30 12:20:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXX No he is not still a virgin, busting a nut has nothing to do with virginity. As soon as he penetrated he broke that mold. There are a lot of guys who actually shoot blanks all their lives and they've had numerous sexual relationships. This does not mean they are still virgins. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-30 12:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because he didn't finish doesn't mean he didn't do it. Consider how many female virgins have an orgasm their first time, so by the same logic most women are still virgins after having sex for a coupla years. If he was in then he is not anymore.
2006-07-30 19:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by newgenre1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way: (sorry if this sound offensive)
What if the women your friend was with filed rape charges? The hospital determines that she was penetrated and confirm traces of his DNA. How could your friend still be a virgin........and be doing 10 to 20 for rape?
He is no longer a virgin!
2006-07-30 19:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in the iffy-issue. My friend was in the same boat. He is old enough that it shouldn't be that big of deal, but next time it'll go fine and if he is with the girl he likes/loves then it will be then. He can consider himself still a virgin. If it was a one night stand, then he is lost his v-card because he put her at risk of pregnancy (theoretically) and STDs.
2006-07-30 19:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by emp04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's a non virgin now. Even though the girl was not pleased with him.
2006-07-30 19:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he had sex for 20 seconds so he's no longer a virgin, besides girls lose their virginity all the time and don't orgasm does this mean they are still a virgin until they actually have one?...
2006-07-30 19:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue.. but either way.. what difference does it make? A person can tell whatever they choose.. for whatever reason.. In my eyes.. it doesnt make him any less or more of a man whether he is a virgin or not.
2006-07-30 19:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his who hee was in her who ha then yes, he lost his virginity. It's sad though that he was not able to enjoy losing to the point of orgasm. After all that is the whole point of sex.
2006-07-30 19:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it hard to believe the guy is 30 and hasn't done it yet. as for the virginity question, i would say he lost it.
2006-07-30 19:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him yes he now is a non virgin and to go celebrate
2006-07-30 19:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋