how long does it take from the break up that you got hurt from in a relationship to heal?

Answer 1

actually true love scars your heart, so it isnt the break up it is you will still love this person, eventually things will get better, go out with friends and that have fun !

Answer 2

It depends on the level of love. More than likey, when you are very much in love, it takes a lot longer, and usually until someone else in your life gets to the level you and your ex were on when you broke up. For example, if you and your ex have dated and began to love one another, until another girl takes that place, you will be dwelling alot. Also, until you realize that everything happends for a reason, you will try to figure out why things happend to you the way they happend. Love hurts and it don't, a very overly phrased statement. make a list of pros and cons, and hopefully you are optimistic about things. It will also help that the nest time you ask a questions, you include helpful details for us! hope everything goes well. PS. if you still long for a person, 3 or 4 months after a break-up, you may need to see a psychiatrist to find out what is inhibiting you from moving on. Muah! Hope this helps!

Answer 3

like everyone else said.. it depends on many things.. it depends how long u were together.. how involved you were emotionally and physically.. how much u cared about each other.. it can take anywhere from a couple days to a few months.. but the best thing u can do is just to move on with ur life and start the healing process as soon as possible.

Answer 4

dear... it depends on u if u r emotional person u can forget that friend ship very difficult.
and u must know it if it was real love u couldn't forget it unless u find a better person that she/he gives u calmness she/he doesn't let u think about anyone else
i believe that u must think about some one that she/he is worth for u and they do every thing for u whole heartedly not for enjoying or another thing
they must want u just for yourself.i think this person is worth making friendship with....if u break up with such a this person your heart never will heal .
i don't know that i made my self crystal clear or not
a friend in need is a friend in deed

Answer 5

It depends a couple years ago my bf and i broke up and i was still not completely over him...we are actually married now though....so ya never know....if it's meant to be they will find their way back into your life....it might take the shortest amount of time to get over then to a very long time....you just have to move on and try to do thing to keep yourself happy.

Answer 6

The healing time varies from person to person. You will heal though. Take it a day at a time. Each day it gets easier and easier.

Answer 7

It all depends. It can take a day, to a week, to years. Every person is different. I've had some breakups where I was still hurt a year later, I've had some where I was only hurt for a few months, and my recent breakup, I was hurt for a few days!

Answer 8

It's been 26 days since I was dumped and I'm still in pain and tear up as if it were yesterday so I'm nowhere near healed.

Answer 9

That all depends on you. As difficult as it is, you have to learn to free yourself from the pain. Start hanging out with friends and going to social activities which involve single people. Keep yourself busy with good books, movies and so on . Sitting around and dwelling on it does not help, it only contributes to the pain that you feel.

Don't dwell on past memories, you just have to learn to let it go

Answer 10

1/2 the amount of time you were together---

together 2 weeks, takes about a week to get over it and start to move on....together 5 years, it will take about 2 and a half years to be ready to find someone new.

Answer 11

However long you make it. If you move on and barely think about -heals fast. If you mope and whine about it all the time-longtime heal. Its all up to you.