me and my ex broke up 6 months ago. There were many reasons but one of them was me not being able to trust him. I caught him once on a website talking to random females (with a hot list of half naked women). After that I was always funny about him and other women coz I get the sense that he is not content in our relationship and was looking somewhere else. Now he blames me for my insecurities. I want to work things out. He said he was sorry and did that just to kill time and he loves me. He hangs out with another female and swears there is nothing going on between them (I dont think he would cheat on me with her tho).What do you think?
2006-07-30 11:43:17 · 7 answers · asked by Pudge_Monsta 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't trust him you are wasting your time
2006-07-30 11:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by FRECKLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I am going to have to agree with him, if you are that insecure then you do need to work out your issues. Looking is not the same as touching and it should not be a crime. You should be able to enjoy the sight of a good looking man the same as he should be able to enjoy the sight of a good looking female. If he has a female friend, how does that hurt you? What does it take from you? If he treats the females around him well then he will most likely treat you well also. If you don't think he would cheat then give him another chance, if he does cheat kick him to the street otherwise enjoy a good thing while it lasts!
2006-07-30 18:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by dleeldy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not so sure what to tell you cause it happened to me. Im in Usa my husband is in Turkey (does web-hosting) I support well sending him money. and been with h im 5 yrs, with the intent he is comming here and we will go back together. One day I recieve a phone call from a girl in Turkey saying I was sending him pic" and he blammed me as well (same story) He said he hired her but couldnt tell me she was female..he needed a place to stay..and she knew all about me... I tried telling her I been with him for 5 yrs..Our webhosting company is OUR company and we are married in our hearts.today cant figure it out for two days he said his "Mother is home" I guess it means he cant talk? wont talk on phone or computer..I know about those half nakid women he too does that...But blames the women for sending cause it his job doing hosting" and they are all (ahems) and know about me. I would get to know those he is with ..dont accuse him... But chances are youre like me and not getting the full story. Has he ever told you this "I didnt want to hurt you" LMAO when will they ever understand LYing hurts more??? Been going through the same...I really understand you!!!! Makes you wonder why cant males be honest...."It boils down to can you forgive him, and can you trust???
2006-07-30 19:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Weeny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl you should have to best guy that is out there. and if you don't trust him you should not be with him. Girl you are the best and should have to best that is out there. just don't set all for the first guy that comes a longer. you should have someone that love you for you and will not try to change you in any way. and locking at other girl's well no that wont right if you ask me. not when you love someone. just fine the best he out there waiting for you.
2006-07-30 18:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Chris Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u shoudl talk to him and well hang out with him more so that he wont be able to hang out with that other girl and learn to trust him more!!! but if u just can't seem to do that or if he keeps doing that stuff then dumbp him well good luck !!
2006-07-30 18:49:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kali Gavette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of this guy. he is trying to use you. move on there are loads of nice guys out there who would not give you that nonsence
2006-07-30 18:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by sharpmurray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
2006-07-30 18:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋