im planing on moving out at the end of highschool, i wanna move closer to my girlfriend that is 4 hrs away and we juss started dating and wanna try it out first, and then after that we both said if it works till the end of school we will plan to move in with each other, but the thing is i wanna move up with a buddy incase we dont move in right away. Then there is another option if my buddy doesnt wanna move up with me, my girlfriends mom might let me stay their till we get are own place, but theres always the chance of her saying no. Right now im worrying about getting stuff to be redy when i move out and other needs, am I over reacting or just worrying to soon, What can I do to release some tension, or should i juss stop worrying about it till the time comes? what would be the best option, PLEASE help me any answers are good!!
2006-07-30 11:35:27 · 10 answers · asked by JoJo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are really going to move then it is best to do it with a good friend who you trust because if things do not work out with this girl your friend will still be there for you, and there is no guarantee that this girl will move in with you or that the relationship will even work out untill the end of the school year, so if you move just live in separate places and give the relationship time to develop and let things take its natural course....
2006-07-30 11:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO NOT LET THING WORRY U RIGHT NOW MANY THING CAN CHANCE IN / DURING THIS NEXT SCHOOL YEAR. YOU WILL SURELY KNOW BY THEN IF SHE IS THE GIRL FOR YOU....AT YOUR AGE PEOPLE CHANGE SO MUCH AND LIVE NO A DAYS MOVES SO FAST...U JUST NEVER KNOW . GET ON THE BOOK AND .LIVE THE GIRLFRIEND BE AS SHE WILL BE AND U WILL TRULY KNOW HER BUY THEN END OF SCHOOL
2006-07-30 11:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by ~JACKIE-ANN ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it kind of soon to be thinking about moving in together. You said you just started dating. You should give it time, get to know her better then see what happens.
2006-07-30 11:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until it comes but before that just rent an apartment for like a week just to see how it works out or like rent a house if you think your not ready just dont or at least consider it. but still you just started dating wait until the times comes since she can either make your life better or ruin it horribly.
2006-07-30 11:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by silent D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest here, since you said you just started dating her you should slow it down a bit aright? If she doesn't think she is ready to move in with her then if you really like her, you will respect what she said and wait.
2006-07-30 11:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a good thing to do, re consider, just chill and as you said until the time comes,you need to have a lot of things before that happen,more so no one is pushing you out,girl stay put and have some fun,hey that is not going to last forever..belive me.
2006-07-30 11:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by ragsdee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your buddy doesn't want to move up there, I wouldn't move in with her and mom. That close too soon will ruin it. Stay put if buddy doesn't want to move up there.
2006-07-30 11:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by tessababyboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this girl ruin your life, that is alot to go through for someone you just started dating... this is all going to end in tears I am afraid.
2006-07-30 11:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by jcmark4501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her she can move when she's ready but she doesn't want to move in, just move somewhere close. At least until she's ready.
2006-07-30 11:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kendall C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK HERE IT IS......
DON'T LET YOUR GIRLFRIEND MOVE IN TILL YOU GET MARRIED. SHE SHOULD STAY WITH HER PARENTS TILL THEN.
IF YOU WANT TO MOVE....LIVE BY YOURSELF.
IF SHE MOVES IN NOW...SHE WILL JUST END UP GETTING PREGNANT AND YOU WILL END UP SEPERATED.
2006-07-30 11:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋