I saw this guy three times and he "supposedly" went on vacation for 10 days but I dont know when he left or therefore when he's coming back but its been two weeks. I know its because I wouldn't have sex with him (happens to me every time) so should I call him and tell him he's an ******? it will make me feel better.
2006-07-30 11:15:33 · 20 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha that "fix his wagon" line is actually perfect cus he's a horse and carriage driver in nyc... i may have to choose best answer just for that
2006-07-30 11:35:29 · update #1
dont waste your breath. odds are he knows hes an a**hole. just wait for karma to kick him in the you-know-what. until then, use your phone calling skills to call guys that DO deserve your time and effort - ones who care more about your brain and heart than if youre putting out or not.
2006-07-30 11:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by koifox_104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it , let it out . But do it only one time. If he calls you back and leaves you a message , don't call him back , delete it. I know its hard but some where there has to be a decent guy. Its not just guys that are only out for sex either . What I don't understand is, do these people think they are invincible ? Condoms won't protect you from each and every disease , genital herpes and genital warts (HPV) are caused by SKIN CONTACT not the exchange of fluids. Plus there are SO MANY mishaps with condoms. UNDERSTAND THIS , THERE IS NO CURE for HIV or genital herpes or warts ONLY TREATMENTS. PLUS there are complications and other sexually transmitted diseases they don't tell you about. Its far better to be safe than to be sorry. For that 15 minutes of pleasure you could end up with a life time of pain.
2006-07-30 12:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First before telling him off, find out if he was really away. But, I am proud of you for not giving into his pressures of wanting sex.
Any guy like that needs a tell, off, but I wouldn't give him the satisfaction.
He sounds like a, player. I emailed with a guy who seemed nice, and as it turned out he was looking for a quckie, I reported him to the singles site I found him on, then blocked him.
It made me feel good to fix his wagon that way.
Not sure what your situation is but I wish you the best.
2006-07-30 11:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by farmhouse168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Calling him to tell him he's an a$$hole
won't make you feel better in the long run, and it won't get you any respect either.
Most guys will dump a girl if all they are after is sex, and they don't get it...but they won't forget her. She's a challenge they never conquered. A lost battle.
So...there is no need to say anything to him for two reasons.
You won the battle when you said No. (Remember, he wasn't in it for love).
You are in his mind as a lady with boundaries, and that gets you respect.
You won't feel better until you realize the difference between a guy who's out for booty, and a guy looking for love...uh, the guys looking for love, run the gammit first too...and LATER settle down
USUALLY with one of the girls that originally said "No"
My brother told me that most guys think:
"Why buy a cow, when you can get the milk for free?"
So don't be all sour milk...stay sweet, and maintain your price.
BTW gals now say:
Why buy the pig when you can get a little sausage for free! hee hee hee hee
stw
;p
2006-07-30 11:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. HE'S the a$$hole, not you. Don't play his game. Be a woman of integrity and channel your negative feelings to a positive pursuit. The feeling you will get from yelling at him will be fleeting. Trust me. Learn to let go and be a positive person. Don't let one jerk ruin your whole day.
2006-07-30 11:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woudn't becuz it is better to tell a person in person cuz if u do it over the fone that person can hang up in yo face before u get to finish what u have to say.
2006-07-30 11:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it will make you feel better about yourself then go ahead and call him any and everything that you can think of.
2006-07-30 11:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, why not? Thank's for the tip, I'm gonna do the exact same thing. Tell me how it goes, ok?
2006-07-30 11:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are jerks in this aspect lol! sure just go ahead and tell him unless you have another reason to not do so
2006-07-30 11:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, do it while your having sex with yourself to put extra cherries on top.
2006-07-30 11:19:00 · answer #10 · answered by I tell it like it is 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋