I heard that it hurts because your are tight. If you use a vibrater every once in a while, will it help?
Any additional information, or anything would be very helpful please!
2006-07-30 11:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
just wait til marriage, ok.
2006-07-30 11:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by chocolatecat592 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is supposed to hurt the first time. Many women still have a 'hymen' in their vagina by the time she has sex for the first time. It's a fleshy cord running from one wall of the vagina to the next. When it is broken by the penis, which it will be, some blood will be discharged from the vagina. Not to worry, this is totally normal and expected.
Using a vibrator will not "loosen you up" because there is no insertion with a vibrator. Get an old or new toothbrush that you won't use for brushing your teeth, and slide it in and out of your vagina. Move it left and right. If you want, you could break your hymen on your own, so your first time having sex won't be 'bloody.'
Good luck.
Benjamin
2006-07-30 18:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by kcobain96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax when you have sex for the first time. I think it hurts so much because you're nervous and tense. If you find that you can't relax, maybe you should wait until you're more comfortable. I wouldn't suggest using a vibrator because in a sense, you would be taking your own virginity by breaking your hymen skin. I hope this helps and I hope you have thought about how serious your first time having sex is.
2006-07-30 18:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by teresa c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're married. The pain will probably be married. (By the way, I'm not married. My minister told me about saving myself for marriage.)
2006-07-30 18:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a girl who cut her cherry w/ a pair of scissors. I do not recommend this, but maybe you can look into getting popped before you get popped.
2006-07-30 18:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until after marriage to your true love. Then work it out with your gynecologist.
2006-07-30 18:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by devotionalservice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats what I did before I did it with my boyfriend bryan, and it helped a lot! (I'm a guy though).
2006-07-30 18:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by oxyman42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come to me and have sex. it should loosen you up
2006-07-30 18:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋