should I fell bad about my ex-fiance I mean she cheated on me But i still have feelings for her we were living together for 1 year, she moved on but i still have feelings for her what should i do? help please
2006-07-30 10:55:53 · 29 answers · asked by werewolf2become 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you have had a lot of answers, but try to read them all.
99.9% of them are telling you the same thing. Heed the multitude. Don't look for the one that will give you permission to follow your hurt and see her again.
Someone always loves more, granted; however, it's not how much you loved her but why...
Were you attracted to her or the idea of her. If it is just the idea of her, then let it go.....now
Think about it like this.
Someone that you love and that loves you will bring out the best in you. Make you a better person, a kinder more giving person. Why? Because you bring out the best in her!
If she is confused about what kind of person she is or wants to be, that's fine. It's a growing process that all humans have go through. In your case, she's in a place where she cares more about herself and the here and now than she cares about you and your feelings.
Could she grow up, or find herself---God willing
Should you wait, broken hearted, for her to see the gem in you?
I don't think so, life is too short.
Would you ever be able to trust her again or would you always question her words, actions, or intent? Would you want to live that way? Always waiting for the other shoe.
old sayings ring true
Fool me once, shame on you
Fool me twice, shame on me.
There is someone out there that will be as fortunate to have you as you are to have them. Just wait, the best is yet to be...
In the meantime, immerse yourself in your work, your hobbies, your family. Once the initial pain is behind you, go find the one you were meant for...
2006-07-30 12:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by judyblue_pa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was able to cheat on you then she never loved you. She put herself first before you, Are you sure that's the kind of person you want to share your life with. And just because you still feel a little something there doesn't mean you should take her back. If she cheated once she would do it again. The best thing you can do is move on and not hold that against the next woman in your life
2006-07-30 18:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by xochichixo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you lived with her for a year, it is natural to still have feelings for her. But the fact that she cheated is a reason not to go back with her. If she cheated on you then, she would probable do it again. Do you want to deal with the pain of that again? It is better to let go and move on with your life.
2006-07-30 18:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is very difficult to get past. Unless both of you have made a committment to get past it together (and to never do it again), it won't work - it was probably a sign that she needed some air outside of your relationship, however immature and hurtful. If she has moved on, don't play the desperate ex and haunt her forever.. you can move on too. You deserve to.
2006-07-30 17:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people breaking up always did it in a mutual way, people may never break up. With time, feelings may subside for your ex. Don't sweat it, just try and move on to the best of your ability.
2006-07-30 17:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by monarchfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may take time but move on. If she really loved you she wouldn't have cheated. Apparently there was something missing there for her even if it wasn't for you. You will find someone who will treat you right.
2006-07-30 17:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy_bear_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go.
It might be difficult, but it is something that must be done. As of now, you should see yourself as a force, never to be reckoned with. There is no going back after cheating has occurred.
2006-07-30 17:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no u know what u sound nice how about u tell me where u live and see what happens and feel bad no that biatch looooost out hehehheh jk just move on w ur life and let her be
u will be happier
2006-07-30 18:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by BLISS IS MY HAPPYNESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...move on... if she cheated on u and hurt u the 1st time i bet shes going to do it the second time find a better woman that would replace her and just move on
2006-07-30 17:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on dude...forget the Biaach she cheated on you ...that means she never really cared for you so you shouldnt care for her either
2006-07-30 17:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by lil_pinkmartian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋